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Partner forensic assessment- still doesn't mention the victims

by majestictopaz on Fri October 15, 2021 1:03pm

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by Izzy
Tue August 29, 2023 9:05am

Trying to live life afterwards

by Jellyhead85 on Tue May 25, 2021 1:16am

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by Pregnantandscared
Mon June 28, 2021 11:36pm

Am I a bad person?

by Concerned on Thu November 26, 2020 11:37pm

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by Keeptrying.6
Wed February 24, 2021 9:46pm

Understanding what my partner has done

by Vickie on Sat November 21, 2020 11:13am

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by Prinsess
Sun February 14, 2021 11:32pm

Refusal to get help / solicitor.

by Ellesse_t on Mon August 4, 2025 11:19am

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by ST
Sat September 6, 2025 9:30pm

Online safety act - if only they knew

by Holdingthegrenade on Wed August 27, 2025 11:33pm

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by Sunshine&Rainbows
Fri August 29, 2025 10:05pm

Is there a link between low self esteem and attraction to children?

by edel2020 on Fri March 21, 2025 12:28pm

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by djmichelle
Fri July 4, 2025 1:04pm

Contact with child

by Sally173 on Mon May 12, 2025 9:23am

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by Sally173
Mon June 16, 2025 10:00pm

What to do...

by Absolutely heartbroken... on Fri April 11, 2025 6:14pm

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by Absolutely heartbroken...
Mon April 14, 2025 9:46am

Struggling

by Broken unicorn on Mon March 17, 2025 9:11am

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by lostinthewoods
Tue March 18, 2025 3:08pm

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