Understanding why
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				Why do men do it.by Bethlou23 on Sun January 6, 2019 7:31pm  | 
			
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			by lee1969  | 
		
				Dealing with the aftermathby Fionaa on Sun February 21, 2021 10:25pm  | 
			
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			by CrazyMayBaby  | 
		
				Paedophile or internet porn addict?by Tutleymutley on Sat June 13, 2020 10:58am  | 
			
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			by Keeptrying.6  | 
		
				Adviceby Girlfriend and mom on Thu February 25, 2021 9:12pm  | 
			
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			by Girlfriend and mom  | 
		
				I am worried that the case may get dropped.by Ruby.T on Wed February 10, 2021 10:56am  | 
			
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			by Ruby.T  | 
		
				Disbelief /denialby Ec on Tue February 9, 2021 8:32pm  | 
			
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			by Yazznan  | 
		
				Reactionsby Imploding on Sun November 29, 2020 11:45am  | 
			
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				Trying to understandby Fionaa on Sat December 5, 2020 1:16pm  | 
			
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			by Catlady   | 
		
				Woman's Hour today.by Tutleymutley on Tue August 18, 2020 4:20pm  | 
			
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			by Lizzy 2.0  | 
		
				Dealing with the aftermathby Rana on Mon May 25, 2020 11:43pm  | 
			
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			by Cookie  |