How to know if my person is still lying
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I recently got the knock for my OH, who was apparently talking to a decoy 14 year old boy on some app. What he did was terrible and i definitely am not taking it lately. However, I feel as though he might be lying to me. For example, from what he tells me, the decoy initated the explicit side of the conversation and kept trying to get him to take part. He also says the decoy repeated asked him to send pictures and sent stuff first to get him to do it. He seems unapologetic, as though he was wronged and taken advantage of.
Im not sure how these decoys operate but so i dont know what to think, but at the same time something about what hes saying feels off.. If what he says is true then maybe i could see some kind of rehabillitation but if hes still lying to me then I dont think this can go on.
What do you all think, lying or no?
Im not sure how these decoys operate but so i dont know what to think, but at the same time something about what hes saying feels off.. If what he says is true then maybe i could see some kind of rehabillitation but if hes still lying to me then I dont think this can go on.
What do you all think, lying or no?
Hi
Firstly I'm sorry you have found yourself here, but you've come to the right place.
As far as I know (and I've had this confirmed by an ex police officer friend) police decoys are not allowed to start the explicit part of the conversation with the offender. They can however respond in an explicit way.
Whether they can ask for explicit photos from the offender I'm not sure but I doubt they are allowed to send them.
Vigilante decoys on the other hand are a law unto themselves and seem to be allowed to do as they please.
If it was a police decoy then I'm afraid it sounds as though your OH could be minimising - it's natural and in no way unusual for them to do this. My OH was adamant he hadn't started the conversation in his case, but forensics told a different story
Xx
Firstly I'm sorry you have found yourself here, but you've come to the right place.
As far as I know (and I've had this confirmed by an ex police officer friend) police decoys are not allowed to start the explicit part of the conversation with the offender. They can however respond in an explicit way.
Whether they can ask for explicit photos from the offender I'm not sure but I doubt they are allowed to send them.
Vigilante decoys on the other hand are a law unto themselves and seem to be allowed to do as they please.
If it was a police decoy then I'm afraid it sounds as though your OH could be minimising - it's natural and in no way unusual for them to do this. My OH was adamant he hadn't started the conversation in his case, but forensics told a different story
Xx
Hi sorry mine was a police decoy incident so i suppose that means that im in a tough situation here.. It makes sense though if he could do everything he did in the past why wouldnt he be able to keep it up..