Shocked and Confused
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Hi Everyone,
We are one week in from 'the knock'. A 5:30 wake-up I will never forget. House searched and devices seized.
My OH was arrested for a communication offence. My confusion comes as there was only 2 months between this conversation happening and the arrest, which I believe to be really quick - please correct me if I am wrong?
I have spoken to my OH and from what has been described to me, this communication was not knowingly with someone under 16. I checked the site myself and it is an over 18's website. I am not sure of much in this situation, the only thing I am sure of is the fact that my OH would have NEVER knowingly have engaged in this type of conversation. I am also hurt as he was not being faithful engaging in these types of conversations to start with.
I suppose my question is if anyone has had a similar experience to this and if anyone has any advice? The hardest part is that we receive no information, which I'm sure from reading other posts will only get more frustrating.
Absolutely shocked and so confused at this whole situation. We have only been married 4 months and were supposed to be going on our perfect honeymoon next year. Now we have no certainty and everything is up in the air.
Love and hugs to all x
We are one week in from 'the knock'. A 5:30 wake-up I will never forget. House searched and devices seized.
My OH was arrested for a communication offence. My confusion comes as there was only 2 months between this conversation happening and the arrest, which I believe to be really quick - please correct me if I am wrong?
I have spoken to my OH and from what has been described to me, this communication was not knowingly with someone under 16. I checked the site myself and it is an over 18's website. I am not sure of much in this situation, the only thing I am sure of is the fact that my OH would have NEVER knowingly have engaged in this type of conversation. I am also hurt as he was not being faithful engaging in these types of conversations to start with.
I suppose my question is if anyone has had a similar experience to this and if anyone has any advice? The hardest part is that we receive no information, which I'm sure from reading other posts will only get more frustrating.
Absolutely shocked and so confused at this whole situation. We have only been married 4 months and were supposed to be going on our perfect honeymoon next year. Now we have no certainty and everything is up in the air.
Love and hugs to all x
I've sent you a private message xx
Hi there check your messages as ive sent you a pm x
My ex's offence was in may 2024 and he was arrested June 2024. So I wouldnt say too quick. Also I believe many of us would say our OHs would never ever do something like this because it is know the person we know however 9 times out of 10 on this forum the police aren't wrong unfortunately. Im sorry you find yourself in this uncertain page, I hope this page will provide you with some answers. I found it very helpful as to what to expect during the journey x
Hi Daisy i sent you a pm if you wouldnt mind checking thanks x