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lilypad2020

Member since
March 2022

15 posts

My person was arrested for the second time the other day. He's currently on probation for the same offence after serving 3 years of a 6 year sentence. He's due to end probation this time next year.

They bailed him until February but obviously that could change. The arrest was for supposedly inciting an under 16 to engage in sexual activity. They ceased 2 devices, both with esafe on them and in interview they didn't put any information or evidence to him on what he'd supposedly done. He swears he hasn't done anything wrong as how could he as he's got the monitoring apps on his phone. In the interview they mentioned a report from on online agency.

I honestly cannot believe we are here for the second time around and I'm taking everything he's saying with a pinch of salt. But I'm also very confused as he mentioned "why would I do anything like that if they are monitoring me".

Has anyone been through this the second time around or had something similar happen?



TIA!

Posted Mon November 24, 2025 9:28amReport post

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

1051 posts

Hi lilypad, I don't have any experience of a second time around but didn't want to just read your post and scroll on. I can only imagine how awful it must be to go through this a second time, it's the thing many of us dread, but I wanted to let you know you're not alone.

Posted Tue November 25, 2025 9:40pmReport post

lilypad2020

Member since
March 2022

15 posts

Thank you. That means a lot to me.

Posted Wed November 26, 2025 4:37pmReport post

Chloe1798

Member since
September 2025

14 posts

Yes, I've been through this twice. There was a gap of about 4 years between both cases. Feel free to message me. X

Posted Thu November 27, 2025 2:15pmReport post

strawberry175

Member since
November 2025

1 post

Hi

A close family member of mine has recently been arrested for a second time too, almost 6 years after the first offence. I never thought we'd be here again? I know it all too well

Posted Fri November 28, 2025 10:38pm
Edited Fri November 28, 2025 10:38pmReport post

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