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Emily0987654321

Member since
November 2025

2 posts

Hi all,

it's been just over 3 weeks since the police arrested my partner of 6 years for indecent images (apparently one picture shared twice) last year. The only information we currently have is the internet provider alerted police that an email address with his name was linked to these images and our op address.



he is denying being a part of this, I'm struggling trying to hold it all together as we have a 3 year old. Social services told us tonight there will be a professionals meeting on Monday so he cannot have any contact other than video call over weekend.

We have been having supervised contact with him since the arrest and now worrying why there is a sudden change? This is the first contact with social services via phone call today.



sorry I'm rambling, I just feel so alone.my family have stopped contact with him since the allegations and I'm struggling juggling everything together x

Posted Mon December 1, 2025 9:31amReport post

Brkn

Member since
October 2025

19 posts

I'm so sorry you're going through this- hopefully social services can explain more thoroughly. It's so hard trying to manage on your own with a young child who just wants their dad.

i don't have any information to offer but I didn't want your message to sit here without a response.

Posted Mon December 1, 2025 4:35pmReport post

OneStepAtATime

Member since
October 2025

63 posts

Really sorry to hear this, sending strength x

Posted Mon December 1, 2025 10:46pmReport post

Emily0987654321

Member since
November 2025

2 posts

Thank you for your support.



i am now living with my parents and we had the first social worker face to face meeting yesterday.



supervised contact with his child with my parents doing this for us. I am so torn...I feel judged for waiting for further information from the investigation before I make a decision in the relationship and I'm still hoping and praying that this is all a horrible mistake (naive I know) and believing when he tells me over and over he is not connected to these images.

how do people carry on with their lives? I feel like I'm failing myself and my son atm whilst I try and process this x

Posted Wed December 3, 2025 12:41pmReport post

Chase H

Member since
December 2025

13 posts

Hello. This is my first post. My partner was arrested on suspicion of downloading 2 images on one date. Is it possible for this to happen without him knowing what the file was before downloading? I know some people use illegal websites to download football, legal films etc and it doesn't always title what the file is before downloading. He has been arrested and bailed. No charge currently and are police are due to examine his devices

Posted Mon December 15, 2025 12:47amReport post

Quick exit