It's been a while, Friday check in x
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Evening lovlies xx
It has been some time since I last did a Friday check in, and reading the forum there are so many new names (heart breaking to see)
So HC will be unfamiliar to you but for those who do remember I just wanted to send an update on how he is doing
He has done extremely well with his degree studies, module 2 passed with a distinction his Tutor is really pleased in how he has been able to adapt (considering the restrictions in prison)
He is looking so well and the most important factor is he his MH is stable, (as a mum that is all I can hope for)
Food is still a huge factor as he has an eating disorder, and still remains to survive on his canteen,
As we get ready for another Christmas on this journey we have learned to adapt and take each day at a time
Even though I am no longer a regular poster on here i do drop by now and again and my heart really does go out to you all
No matter what stage you are all on, remember just how strong and amazing you are
You will get through this horrendous journey
Love sent as always xxx
It has been some time since I last did a Friday check in, and reading the forum there are so many new names (heart breaking to see)
So HC will be unfamiliar to you but for those who do remember I just wanted to send an update on how he is doing
He has done extremely well with his degree studies, module 2 passed with a distinction his Tutor is really pleased in how he has been able to adapt (considering the restrictions in prison)
He is looking so well and the most important factor is he his MH is stable, (as a mum that is all I can hope for)
Food is still a huge factor as he has an eating disorder, and still remains to survive on his canteen,
As we get ready for another Christmas on this journey we have learned to adapt and take each day at a time
Even though I am no longer a regular poster on here i do drop by now and again and my heart really does go out to you all
No matter what stage you are all on, remember just how strong and amazing you are
You will get through this horrendous journey
Love sent as always xxx
So lovely to see your post, and bring back memories every friday. I am so glad HC is doing well, and that his MH is improving.
It is so sad to see so many new people here, but it is so great to have this forum. I certainly have needed it many times, and glad it is still helping people.
I am off to a christmas market this weekend. I love the run up to Xmas. But know it is sad for alot of people. But we are all here if you need us.
Hoping everyone manages to have a little fun this weekend. Virtual hug to everyone
It is so sad to see so many new people here, but it is so great to have this forum. I certainly have needed it many times, and glad it is still helping people.
I am off to a christmas market this weekend. I love the run up to Xmas. But know it is sad for alot of people. But we are all here if you need us.
Hoping everyone manages to have a little fun this weekend. Virtual hug to everyone
Hi all,
All quiet this week, nothing from CPS, not even had anything formal from police or solicitor on bail documents even though verbally confirmed until Feb next year..
Autism assessment in progress, so that's going forward..
Son really benefiting from starting to play football again, doesn't seem as lonely.. just has this sword hanging over him.. hopefully it doesn't take him back ten steps..
Have the best weekend you can have everyone..
All quiet this week, nothing from CPS, not even had anything formal from police or solicitor on bail documents even though verbally confirmed until Feb next year..
Autism assessment in progress, so that's going forward..
Son really benefiting from starting to play football again, doesn't seem as lonely.. just has this sword hanging over him.. hopefully it doesn't take him back ten steps..
Have the best weekend you can have everyone..
Dad in limbo
my son was rebailed till February we got all the paperwork at the police station and the solicitor sent paperwork the following week. Do the police have evidence yet? They are still looking at my sons phone they did a partial extraction and found nothing. Now have threatened my son with a RIPA to make him hand passwords over, which we'd already agreed to do but they seem to have forgotten that! So our solicitor has advised us not to hand the passwords over as they haven't followed protocol. They have to prove they have exhausted every avenue of getting the evidence before applying for a RIPA. I'm at a loss with this as we offered the passwords we just have to hope the solicitor knows what he's doing!
my son was rebailed till February we got all the paperwork at the police station and the solicitor sent paperwork the following week. Do the police have evidence yet? They are still looking at my sons phone they did a partial extraction and found nothing. Now have threatened my son with a RIPA to make him hand passwords over, which we'd already agreed to do but they seem to have forgotten that! So our solicitor has advised us not to hand the passwords over as they haven't followed protocol. They have to prove they have exhausted every avenue of getting the evidence before applying for a RIPA. I'm at a loss with this as we offered the passwords we just have to hope the solicitor knows what he's doing!
Upset mum
I'm new on here so don't know your case but glad to hear I'm taking it your son is doing ok. Was he at university when he was sent to prison or has he started studying in prison?
it's good to hear from people who have reached a conclusion o this nightmare, it feels like there's no end in sight for us at the moment cx
I'm new on here so don't know your case but glad to hear I'm taking it your son is doing ok. Was he at university when he was sent to prison or has he started studying in prison?
it's good to hear from people who have reached a conclusion o this nightmare, it feels like there's no end in sight for us at the moment cx
Hi Tilly x
No he started his degree while in prison, it keeps him occupied and has done amazingly well x
I'm sorry you have joined us here and I hope you have got some support around you x
No he started his degree while in prison, it keeps him occupied and has done amazingly well x
I'm sorry you have joined us here and I hope you have got some support around you x
Tilly,
He has had the second interview and all evidence passed to CPS 2 months ago.. should have attended bail mid November but police called to say they had not heard from CPS and they were extending bail, so no need to attend.. just thought they should have sent his new bail form to him... not sure on protocol...
He has had the second interview and all evidence passed to CPS 2 months ago.. should have attended bail mid November but police called to say they had not heard from CPS and they were extending bail, so no need to attend.. just thought they should have sent his new bail form to him... not sure on protocol...
Oh upset! My old friend on here. I rarely come on and post either but your message made me so, I don't know, proud of your both as we know each others journeys. You must be so... not sure if the word, validated? By this?
We've had some tough times between us all along with cooing laughter moments. So glad he's doing well. Hope the fur baby's are too. Sending you both love x
We've had some tough times between us all along with cooing laughter moments. So glad he's doing well. Hope the fur baby's are too. Sending you both love x
So Tired
So good to hear from you xx
I hope you and yours are doing well, I often think of you and will always remember the choice of the new face cream VS the dishwasher ;-) always makes me chuckle xx
I am very proud of of far HC has come and that is all I could ever wish for xx
So good to hear from you xx
I hope you and yours are doing well, I often think of you and will always remember the choice of the new face cream VS the dishwasher ;-) always makes me chuckle xx
I am very proud of of far HC has come and that is all I could ever wish for xx
Hello Friday Check in,
I don't come on here very often anymore, but I'm so glad I did. Its good to hear about HC, I'm glad his mental health is good and that his courses are going well.
Like everyone else, I'm so sorry to see all the new names joining our group. It's just so devastating.
My little family is doing well. My husband has been out of prison since August. His parole officer is fair, and he was very lucky to have minimal ongoing restrictions. He does "maintenance" classes, which are a follow up to the sex offender treatment from inside, he found a job, still sees his psychologist, and is very active in his 12 step group.
My kids seem to be thriving. The report cards have been great, and they have friends who don't seem to care. My youngest is very excited to be playing volleyball this winter.
I admit I still struggle with how different my life is from a few years ago. I had hoped some friends would come back but they didn't. I've made some new friends but I generally feel like an outcast most of the time. Society is not kind to partners who stay.
I am intent to find some joy this holiday season. The tree is up, the gifts are bought and being wrapped, and I've found a cup of hot chocolate every night makes me smile. I'd like to wish you all a happy holidays and hope that you can find some Joy this season too.
I don't come on here very often anymore, but I'm so glad I did. Its good to hear about HC, I'm glad his mental health is good and that his courses are going well.
Like everyone else, I'm so sorry to see all the new names joining our group. It's just so devastating.
My little family is doing well. My husband has been out of prison since August. His parole officer is fair, and he was very lucky to have minimal ongoing restrictions. He does "maintenance" classes, which are a follow up to the sex offender treatment from inside, he found a job, still sees his psychologist, and is very active in his 12 step group.
My kids seem to be thriving. The report cards have been great, and they have friends who don't seem to care. My youngest is very excited to be playing volleyball this winter.
I admit I still struggle with how different my life is from a few years ago. I had hoped some friends would come back but they didn't. I've made some new friends but I generally feel like an outcast most of the time. Society is not kind to partners who stay.
I am intent to find some joy this holiday season. The tree is up, the gifts are bought and being wrapped, and I've found a cup of hot chocolate every night makes me smile. I'd like to wish you all a happy holidays and hope that you can find some Joy this season too.