Husband arrested two days ago
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We got the knock two days ago. The biggest shock of my life and I am distraught. Like many others on here I cannot believe such a kind caring person might have done something so hideous. He's been an ideal husband, my rock and now I haven't seen him since I told him to leave and I want a divorce. He was using gay chatrooms for our entire relationship, so as well as the investigation, I know he has been unfaithful (online) for all those years. It's left me unable to eat as my future that I had no doubts about, has gone. The odd thing is that I have no doubts he loved me very much, it shone out of his face. That makes it worse for me.
I'm so sorry, I hope you have some support in real life, the helpline is very good if you need to talk out loud to someone. It's very early days, it's understandable your eating/sleeping is affected. Go easy on yourself, it's ok to feel what you're feeling x