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I can't believe that I am here posting and wanting to talk about my situation so here goes.
My 30yr son was snared by hunters online and 2 yrs down the road he is being charged after telling us all was okay and nothing happened and no charges to answer to. As you can imagine am distraught, broken and questioning my parenting skills. Why did he feel he had to lie to me. I've since found out he confideded in his house mates, which make me feel worse and the why not me?.
Now I don't know what to believe and am struggling I love my son even now, and I have people who know me and whats happened to cut all ties and to no longer talk to him. I can't and won't do that, they don't understand how hard it is for me. I just want answers and no one I know can help me.
Sorry for the rant.
My 30yr son was snared by hunters online and 2 yrs down the road he is being charged after telling us all was okay and nothing happened and no charges to answer to. As you can imagine am distraught, broken and questioning my parenting skills. Why did he feel he had to lie to me. I've since found out he confideded in his house mates, which make me feel worse and the why not me?.
Now I don't know what to believe and am struggling I love my son even now, and I have people who know me and whats happened to cut all ties and to no longer talk to him. I can't and won't do that, they don't understand how hard it is for me. I just want answers and no one I know can help me.
Sorry for the rant.
I understand what you're going through unfortunately, it's utter hell and I'm so sorry. Feel free to message me directly. You've done nothing wrong x
Hey, sending you so much love. Have a chat with him when youre ready about why they didnt feel they could open up to you after the knock. They may not want to talk so let your feelings be known, that may aid them in feeling okay to talk to you. I know my husband thought we would all abandon him when the police brought him home.
It could be a lot of things from shame, denial, anxiety, fear and so many other potentials that stopped him before. But you need closure on why he didnt talk to you.
You're not a bad parent at all, remember that.
It could be a lot of things from shame, denial, anxiety, fear and so many other potentials that stopped him before. But you need closure on why he didnt talk to you.
You're not a bad parent at all, remember that.