Will we see the evidence?
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Hoping someone who's been here can advise- when we get to the trial date, will we get to see the evidence beforehand? I would like to see the transcript of this conversation my husband had, because I think until I do none of this will feel truly real to me.
I have started divorce as a way to protect myself and my kids from the vigilante videos but I do still love my husband. But I'm also aware it's easy to justify everything away when I'm not seeing the literal thing in front of me (sexual conversation with a vigilante pretending to be a minor- no photos or intent to meet etc)
I just feel like to be able to move forward I need to know first hand because I can't trust anyone.
I have started divorce as a way to protect myself and my kids from the vigilante videos but I do still love my husband. But I'm also aware it's easy to justify everything away when I'm not seeing the literal thing in front of me (sexual conversation with a vigilante pretending to be a minor- no photos or intent to meet etc)
I just feel like to be able to move forward I need to know first hand because I can't trust anyone.
My OH agreed I could have full disclosure - this meant that I could speak to the solicitor and see all the evidence.
However the conversation which he was initially arrested for (with a decoy) was not transcribed, nor was it read out in court. He pleaded guilty so it didn't go to trial, so perhaps it would have been included if that had been the case. The only info about that conversation that was given was that they 'discussed her sexual experiences'.
There were 2 other very short conversations which were read out in court (literally a couple of lines each) but I had seen these already so it wasn't a shock.
Good luck xxx
However the conversation which he was initially arrested for (with a decoy) was not transcribed, nor was it read out in court. He pleaded guilty so it didn't go to trial, so perhaps it would have been included if that had been the case. The only info about that conversation that was given was that they 'discussed her sexual experiences'.
There were 2 other very short conversations which were read out in court (literally a couple of lines each) but I had seen these already so it wasn't a shock.
Good luck xxx
My daughter never got disclosure from her husband.
It's been 19 weeks of hell and still she knows nothing.
Hopefully now the divorce has started she will find out as they have kids together and it'll need to be supervised contact for 2 years
It's been 19 weeks of hell and still she knows nothing.
Hopefully now the divorce has started she will find out as they have kids together and it'll need to be supervised contact for 2 years
Hey Bkn,
I m sorry you re in this situation too.
I got full disclosure from my person and his solicitor forwarded me pre-sentencing report and case summary. In these I found many quotes from the communication and I guess they would pick up to highlight those that give an impression of the nature of the talk and probably the most obscene. However it s not a full transcript. Some very nasty remarks my person made that where read out in Magistrate Court for example did not appear in any of the documents.
I m still hoping to maybe see the full communication in the messenger but I m not sure if that is possible or of police will somehow delete all these whatsapp and facebook chats.
I hope you can get some disclosure and that it will bring you some peace of mind.
Sending you my best wishes
I m sorry you re in this situation too.
I got full disclosure from my person and his solicitor forwarded me pre-sentencing report and case summary. In these I found many quotes from the communication and I guess they would pick up to highlight those that give an impression of the nature of the talk and probably the most obscene. However it s not a full transcript. Some very nasty remarks my person made that where read out in Magistrate Court for example did not appear in any of the documents.
I m still hoping to maybe see the full communication in the messenger but I m not sure if that is possible or of police will somehow delete all these whatsapp and facebook chats.
I hope you can get some disclosure and that it will bring you some peace of mind.
Sending you my best wishes