Will we see the evidence?
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Hoping someone who's been here can advise- when we get to the trial date, will we get to see the evidence beforehand? I would like to see the transcript of this conversation my husband had, because I think until I do none of this will feel truly real to me.
I have started divorce as a way to protect myself and my kids from the vigilante videos but I do still love my husband. But I'm also aware it's easy to justify everything away when I'm not seeing the literal thing in front of me (sexual conversation with a vigilante pretending to be a minor- no photos or intent to meet etc)
I just feel like to be able to move forward I need to know first hand because I can't trust anyone.
I have started divorce as a way to protect myself and my kids from the vigilante videos but I do still love my husband. But I'm also aware it's easy to justify everything away when I'm not seeing the literal thing in front of me (sexual conversation with a vigilante pretending to be a minor- no photos or intent to meet etc)
I just feel like to be able to move forward I need to know first hand because I can't trust anyone.
My OH agreed I could have full disclosure - this meant that I could speak to the solicitor and see all the evidence.
However the conversation which he was initially arrested for (with a decoy) was not transcribed, nor was it read out in court. He pleaded guilty so it didn't go to trial, so perhaps it would have been included if that had been the case. The only info about that conversation that was given was that they 'discussed her sexual experiences'.
There were 2 other very short conversations which were read out in court (literally a couple of lines each) but I had seen these already so it wasn't a shock.
Good luck xxx
However the conversation which he was initially arrested for (with a decoy) was not transcribed, nor was it read out in court. He pleaded guilty so it didn't go to trial, so perhaps it would have been included if that had been the case. The only info about that conversation that was given was that they 'discussed her sexual experiences'.
There were 2 other very short conversations which were read out in court (literally a couple of lines each) but I had seen these already so it wasn't a shock.
Good luck xxx