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Re just the one under age girl the decoy

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Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

19 posts

Just been sat here on the dark with my Christmas tree thinking why

My loved one was caught by the decoys

He had no images on fone and was in a over 18s group and had never talked to any under age girls before as the fone download came back

On my loved ones Facebook you could cleay see he was depressed and had a drink problem just trying to work out the whys are the decoys just going after a certain person the vulnerable person

As why would when this decoy starts talking and then say it's a 14 year old the more I think about it , are is it me over thinking it

Posted Sun December 7, 2025 7:11pmReport post

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

1045 posts

Hi Poppy, I think overthinking is something we all do, especially when we’re trying to make sense of a sad and distressing situation. You’re going through an incredibly difficult time, and it’s only natural that your mind is working overtime.

I hope you're finding ways to look after yourself and that your OH has been able to find support for his mental wellbeing and drinking.

You're not on your own, we're here to support you.

Posted Sun December 7, 2025 10:00pmReport post

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