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Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

27 posts

My oh is scared to go places in case anyone recognises him and something kicks off is this normal anyone else's partners suffered with this and what did you do to help them meant to be going for a family meal and carols at church Saturday 20th

Posted Thu December 11, 2025 6:44pmReport post

Poppop

Member since
September 2023

91 posts

Hi

Yes my son want go into his local down or supermarket

As it was posted all over Facebook

About a three months after sentencing

He went to local supermarket and someone recognised him from Facebook and call him the p word

Now he want go there

Posted Thu December 11, 2025 6:58pmReport post

Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

27 posts

No one as ever shouted anything to him before I just hate him been anxious and scared breaks my heart xx

Posted Thu December 11, 2025 7:26pmReport post

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

1047 posts

Poppy, it really is about taking small steps. It’s been over two years since my person’s case was shared on social media and in the local paper, and there are still places he chooses not to go.

At first, he couldn’t face anyone at all and would only go out after dark to walk around the block. His therapist helped him take things one step at a time, staying on each step until he felt ready to move to the next. He began by simply driving to a shop car park. After doing that a few times, he worked up to stepping inside, and only when he felt comfortable did he start walking around the shop. For a long time he avoided our local shop, but now he goes in without thinking much about it.

The more they go out and realise nothing bad happens, the easier it slowly becomes. It just takes time.


Posted Thu December 11, 2025 10:47pmReport post

Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

27 posts

At the beginning I was very upbeat but now I just worry that he's always going to be scared of going out places I just can't see no end to this xx

Posted Fri December 12, 2025 8:24amReport post

Prinsess

Member since
February 2021

43 posts

It's coming up 3 years since it hit the papers for my person and he is still like this now don't think it will ever get any easier it's so hard as I have had to take on a lot more than I did by him not feeling comfortable to go to a lot of places hope it gets better for your person soon

Posted Fri December 12, 2025 7:05pmReport post

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