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Pregnant and very nervous about my appointment tomorrow

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Pinkey2019

Member since
July 2022

100 posts

I will give short information about my situation basically my husband was charged for indecent images in 2021 he is in the register for 10 years and also on shpo . We did have socail involment 3 years ago and assments were done by Lucy faith full and his risk came back as low risk I decided to end the relationship as I was upset and socail were stress me out and I wanted to protect my son which I have been doing . He is allowed to see his son supervised but it March if will go to unsupervised thatnwqs decided by the huge and Lucyfaith and me . What my worry is now we got back together in October I informed socail then me and hubby have got back but we don't live together she asked me if there was new concerns I said no she said there was no need to open a case . But know I found out I am pregnant which I called them back and tould the 3 weeks ago and haven't heart anything also his ppu sent a refel to let them know haven't heard anything now I am worrying about what will happend with the midwife appointment tomorrow will tha trigger anything and I worry they I will lose my baby I haven been seen as a protive factor but I feel that because I left him that's why . On the assments that Lucyfaith did socail did ask them if we was to get back in the future can I still protect my son she said yes I still can so to me that's a positive thing I have always been honest with them and informed them straight when we got back together. Can some please give me advice what to expect at the midwife appointment and what could happend next thank you xxx

Posted Thu December 18, 2025 5:07pmReport post

Chase H

Member since
December 2025

13 posts

Sorry to hear you are going through this. You can always call social services and ask what the situation is, so you don't have to wait for them to contact you

Posted Sat December 20, 2025 2:43pmReport post

Pinkey2019

Member since
July 2022

100 posts

I have contacted socail when me and him got back together

and they asked me if there was a new concern I said no and he doesn't live with me she was like there is no need to open a case and when I found out I was pregnant I called them again which was 17 November she said she will email the early hep team but haven't heard anything and now the midwife has also contact them yesterday so let's see what will happen.

Posted Sat December 20, 2025 9:12pmReport post

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