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so finally after two years after getting the knock the police messaged my OH yesterday and asked him to meet up with him today which he did. my OH has now been informed that he's going to be charged with two offences relating to what he has done. I won't go into detail but obviously that's why I'm on here. The police officer has said he feels it will be dealt with in magistrates court as my OH has been getting lots of helping support on the Lucy faithful foundation. however, he came round my house afterwards and informed me that he sure he can get through all this as long as he has the support of me and his mother I was just basically going on about what help he needed and support he needed and while I understand that yes he does need help and support as I pointed out to him. What about the help and support his mother and I need to.

this is the second time he's offended first time I wasn't with him when he did it but I'm really I'm not sure how I feel or how to go forward with this or even if I want to go forward with him I feel so so confused and so muddle I don't know what to do and his mother is telling me I need to stand by him and support him. I have already lost so much because of what he did in the past and I don't see why I should be standing by him again now I've seen it in black-and-white on his charge sheet It's really brought it all home to me again x