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Is breaking up the only option?

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FrancesBean

Member since
August 2023

7 posts

Has anyone stayed with their partner after they have pleaded guilty and been convicted of IIOC? How does it work when you have kids and they have a 10 year SHPO?

Posted Mon December 29, 2025 9:45amReport post

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

419 posts

My oh was 5 images, social work visited us only once and closed the case he was allowed to be alone with her he posed no risk to her, he received 180jours community payback, 1 year supervision and 1 year on register

Were out the other side next month sees 1 year since conviction spent

Posted Sat January 3, 2026 10:14pmReport post

FrancesBean

Member since
August 2023

7 posts

How come they deemed him as no risk? My ex wasn't allowed unsupervised contact as soon as he was arrested and we had a Social Worker involved throughout. After he was arrested a second time and our children were put on a Child Protection plan I decided we were over. His conviction is spent now but I still see it as incompatible with family life.

Posted Sun January 11, 2026 12:55amReport post

Blue Bear

Member since
January 2026

5 posts

We are still together but I'm holding on by a thread. I'm also curious why he was allowed to see your daughter?

Posted Tue January 20, 2026 1:32pmReport post

Quick exit