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Had the knock on the door before Xmas and OH has been accused of indecent images(2) on an app which he signed up to in December 2024 but never used. Still allowed to see kids just not alone or over night. Had all bar 3 devices back. 3 mobile phones being examined. Had a call today to say SW and office want to come update me on Friday as 2 images have been found on the devices nothing more than that information. Confused if it's something serious would my OH been arrested and taken away when the images found.OH has categorie said he hasn't taken any photos or downloaded anything.
Why the long wait in finding something to wanting to discuss we me. Getting very limited information from anyone and I need support
Why the long wait in finding something to wanting to discuss we me. Getting very limited information from anyone and I need support
Hey,
First of all, sorry that you have found yourself here, no one expects to be in this situation.
My partner was arrested and a device seized for examination. The police confirmed IIOC on the device but was RUI whilst the investigation went on, this may be what has happened to your OH. My OH was RUI from the beginning until the end (he received a suspended sentence, SOR and SHPO).
My and my OH don't have children, so I can't give much help with SW!
It took from date of arrest to sentencing around 2.5 years. I was told told this was a normal timeframe.
The device will be examined to determine if they are IIOC or chats etc. They will be put into categories and then counted as some images can be duplicated. They will also be put through a system to see if any of the victims are on a missing children's list or something (this is what I was told by his OIC).
I hope that this helped? Message me if you need a chat x
First of all, sorry that you have found yourself here, no one expects to be in this situation.
My partner was arrested and a device seized for examination. The police confirmed IIOC on the device but was RUI whilst the investigation went on, this may be what has happened to your OH. My OH was RUI from the beginning until the end (he received a suspended sentence, SOR and SHPO).
My and my OH don't have children, so I can't give much help with SW!
It took from date of arrest to sentencing around 2.5 years. I was told told this was a normal timeframe.
The device will be examined to determine if they are IIOC or chats etc. They will be put into categories and then counted as some images can be duplicated. They will also be put through a system to see if any of the victims are on a missing children's list or something (this is what I was told by his OIC).
I hope that this helped? Message me if you need a chat x
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Since the Knock,My OH went in for questioning then released with bail conditions can't remember the exact one but presuming we have children. 90 per cent of the devices taken came back clear before Xmas so got the knock on 14 December 2025 I think and then on the 23rd December 2025 OH could go pick up devices which had been checked the only 3 devices which needed to be checked were 3 phones 1 of which is the OH personal mobile 1 of which has been repaired as my Daughter broke the screen on it and 1 a stop gap for my OH to use when his broke. I get a text today to ask if the police officer and SW can come round on Friday as they have an update. SW wouldn't say anyone to me said need to leave it to the police. So pushed my OH to get answers as I was not happy to wait till Friday for an update. In my head I am wondering if it's really serious they would of wanted to speak to me today wouldn't they. All sorts going though my head and feel I've no one to talk to l.
Since the Knock,My OH went in for questioning then released with bail conditions can't remember the exact one but presuming we have children. 90 per cent of the devices taken came back clear before Xmas so got the knock on 14 December 2025 I think and then on the 23rd December 2025 OH could go pick up devices which had been checked the only 3 devices which needed to be checked were 3 phones 1 of which is the OH personal mobile 1 of which has been repaired as my Daughter broke the screen on it and 1 a stop gap for my OH to use when his broke. I get a text today to ask if the police officer and SW can come round on Friday as they have an update. SW wouldn't say anyone to me said need to leave it to the police. So pushed my OH to get answers as I was not happy to wait till Friday for an update. In my head I am wondering if it's really serious they would of wanted to speak to me today wouldn't they. All sorts going though my head and feel I've no one to talk to l.
At the time I left my OH and the police didn't update me until 2 weeks after he was arrested. Try not to think too much into it (I know it's easier said than done) - it may be because you guys have children together as you said but I hope all goes well x
Hi
I just wonder if it was something major they would of been in touch sooner Ie if they were to stop him having any contact with the children ect. Stomach filled with dread for tomorrow.
I just wonder if it was something major they would of been in touch sooner Ie if they were to stop him having any contact with the children ect. Stomach filled with dread for tomorrow.