Family and Friends Forum

So back in september the week after we had just moved into our new house there was a knock at the door police took my partner of 5 years away and he was arrested and under investigation for potentially acessing iioc, he was released the same day and at that moment i wasnt ready to talk to him. Since then we had spoken and managed to start a new norm where although he could have supervised contact with my children i did not want to take the risk of confusing my children or putting them at risk. I set the boundary that until we had clarity that he could only stay at our house when the children werent there. Fast forward to this week monday morning he had gone to work and i went to pick up my children from their dads. I received a knock at the door mid day to say that he had been rearressted as there had been early developments. He has since been charged with creating IIoc the child i had to identify and it was my daughter. My mind is in comolete turmoil ive now got social workers on my back because my daughter is now a victim. They said they had received information that he hadnt stuck to bail conditions which is completly not true the kids havent seen him once since the very day he was first arrested. I also dont understand how identifying my daughter as the child makes me a witness. Hes since been charged and isnt allowed to contact me or cone anywhere near the house. Im currently turmoul because i need answers and the uncertainty of the future i just feel very overwhelmed they are goung to speak to my children next week at school i cant lose my kids all ive done from the very start is protect them what do i do from this point ????