Family and Friends Forum

How would you feel? What would you do?

Notifications OFF

ZaraL

Member since
December 2025

5 posts

Hi guys,

I previously posted about my father being arrested for IIOC. Just for some context, he has a terminal illness and after being bailed, took an OD. We all rallied around despite having our whole life ruined and unable to even get any basic answers due to his medical situation.

Fast forward - All charges dropped, NFA, his health is horrendous and the OD sped up the process.

I am angry.... We have had the worst shock of our lives, so many unanswered questions, no apologies, nothing... He hasn't made a single effort to text, bars us going round except for one family member who is having to now shoulder this terrible burden alone. I feel offended, I know it's because he is weak and a coward, but he at least owes us something.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Time is inevitably running out, but like our whole lives, it's us having to try and make an effort. Angry, anxious, and feeling bleak today.

Posted Mon January 26, 2026 9:47amReport post

Quick exit