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StartingOver

Member since
November 2024

4 posts

9 years on, last weekend, from the knock and the morning my life imploded. 9 full years of police, court, probation, social services, counsellors, marriage guidance, divorce lawyers... 18 months on from my discovery of the reoffending.

I am extremely low at the moment. My new partner (a year in) has just told me he needs to step back from talking about my husbands offending, because he's not coping with it. I don't know that I'm after advice as such... just to offload to people who, sadly, much of this will resonate with. Please prop me up today and remind me I'm not alone... I need you all.

Posted Mon February 9, 2026 9:22amReport post

OneStepAtATime

Member since
October 2025

77 posts

I'm sorry to hear this, it is such a lonely place. My situation is very different but couldn't not post to tell you, at least, you're not alone and I am sending you strength. Keep talking x

Posted Mon February 9, 2026 11:00amReport post

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