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I divorced my person because of the offending and all the lies that emerged subsequently. I am well rid of him.
But this week in my local press him and his offending has reared it's ugly head again.
Turns out he started a new relationship (I honestly thought this woman was a figment if his over active imagination) but he have her a false name to hide his history. Apparently this is against the SOR rules and he has been arrested again and might possibly go back to jail.
Now this doesn't affect me directly but I am still in contact with his mum and live her dearly Do I now tell her or wait to see what the outcome of his court appearance is next month. It will upset her and set her back - there is only me and her partner who know about the knock etc. She doesn't live locally and not on SM so unlikely to find out.
Feels like this will never go away
But this week in my local press him and his offending has reared it's ugly head again.
Turns out he started a new relationship (I honestly thought this woman was a figment if his over active imagination) but he have her a false name to hide his history. Apparently this is against the SOR rules and he has been arrested again and might possibly go back to jail.
Now this doesn't affect me directly but I am still in contact with his mum and live her dearly Do I now tell her or wait to see what the outcome of his court appearance is next month. It will upset her and set her back - there is only me and her partner who know about the knock etc. She doesn't live locally and not on SM so unlikely to find out.
Feels like this will never go away
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