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Venting.



Police judging him as likely to contact offend. StopSo therapist ditto - her so called supportive statement for the court is abonimable and makes him out to be a p, not engaging with therapy, incapable of understanding the illegality of the offending, unable to change. Needless to say we agree with our trusty solicitor that we won't submit it.



SS - dont even get me started.



Wrongly judged by all of them. Not seeing him for who and how he is. Pouring blame and guilt and false allegations, accusations, expectations on him.



Keeping him away from his kids.



He fainted last week (probably due to stress and strain) and his psychiatrist took him off the adhd medication til ecg results are back. A common effect of coming off the adhd meds rapidly is depression.



When he was suicidal last year the thing he couldn't cope with the most was that he couldn't see the children. I am worried, now, again, about his state of mind. (GP and adhd psych have been informed).



He is also v distressed about the case and having to talk with professionals about the when-why-how of what he did, which there has been a lot of recently and will be more of at probation mtg next week.



Then court in March.

And all the new and upcoming restrictions on his life now he's on the register, soon shpo most likely.



SS are the cruellest institution i have ever come across, i swear.



Thanks for being there, and listening.

Posted Fri February 13, 2026 8:04amReport post

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