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Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 1:48pmReport post

It's a long way off yet but has anyone gone on holidays since their partner's conviction? Xx

I just need to know I can still look forward to a life.

Maria

Member since
September 2018

286 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 2:56pmReport post

Yes, it's not like before when you could just go anywhere. It will depend what your partner is sentenced for and any shpo he might get. You just need to think about where you are going, you have to read the terms and conditions of the location and company before you book, we check with probation that they think it's ok. You cannot go to the usa and many other countries, you can't go to butlins, haven, eurocamp, centre parcs and most other holiday resorts like that, some hotel chains also do not allow people on the register to stay. As long as it doesn't say that they dont allow anyone on a criminal register to stay then you can go. So going on holiday needs a lot more thought now, but it is possible to go on holiday.

Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 3:22pmReport post

Thank you for your quick response. Its just so daunting. Like everything x

mjl73

Member since
August 2019

240 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 3:49pmReport post

Out of interest do you know what hotel chains won't allow you? So far I've not found any that won't in the UK but I've not checked all of them. We're planning a hotel for this year as bail conditions ruled out going away last summer.

We were told if you wanted to do a cruise you can just ensure that it's an adults only one.

Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 5:00pmReport post

I am just scared to spend loads on a holiday then my hubby not be allowed in the country.

SallyBlue

Member since
March 2019

252 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 7:25pmReport post

Certain countries will not allow registered offenders in such as Canada, America, Australia and China. UK is much easier although some places refuse entry if they are privately owned.

I have had 2 family holidays and it was great. X

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Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Sun February 23, 2020 8:04pmReport post

Hi Sally blue where did you go on your holidays? I think I'd be bricking it on the plane, I suffer with anxiety as it is. I'd have a melt down if he go stopped a immigration.

Partner

Member since
July 2019

221 posts

Posted Mon February 24, 2020 7:55pmReport post

Is an adult only hotel in Europe ok?

Ann P

Member since
February 2020

169 posts

Posted Mon February 24, 2020 8:29pmReport post

Does anyone have any experience of travelling abroad wit a partner who's on the register? Does he get stopped at the airport? We have family abroad and hope to travel in the summer.

hollybush

Member since
February 2020

12 posts

Posted Tue February 25, 2020 8:19amReport post

Ann



My husband has been on the register for years.He was always stopped at passport control on the way back into the country. They'd only ask vague general questions like where he'd been and who he'd been with. The first time it happened I thought my heart was going to stop but now I'm used to it I always go through passport control first and leave him to it. Last year though he was stopped on the way into Spain. Which was a first. He'd just got a new passport and I guess with technological advancements they know there's a flag against his name.

It's not fun but it's not all that bad and you do kind of get used to it.

Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Tue February 25, 2020 9:40amReport post

The police officer that comes to the house said a green notice will be put on the passport when we go on holiday and it doesn't tell that what you did. I have been looking and most places we want to go you dont need a visa and the travel cards you fill in dont ask about convictions.

Think I am going to crap myself when/if we ever go on holiday.

hollybush

Member since
February 2020

12 posts

Posted Tue February 25, 2020 1:39pmReport post

Ren,

You will be fine. Make sure you go through passport control first and busy yourself finding where your luggage is coming up freshening up in the loos or whatever. In my experience the checks are all very standard, especially if he memorises the name and address of where you are staying. Since being on the register we've been to the Dominican Republic, Cuba, Kenya, Bali, Italy and Spain. Never had any issues other than him being asked a few questions when passing through passport control. In fact pre husband and pre the invention of the ESTA I had more issues getting into the states

Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Tue February 25, 2020 2:05pmReport post

Oh thank you that makes me sooo much happier. I really want to go back to mexico at some point but. Xxx

Demixl

Member since
June 2019

6 posts

Posted Tue March 24, 2020 8:14amReport post




Conviction isn’t the end of the world. Most probably, your inner worries and negative thoughts give rise to many doubts whether to travel or not. Life is going on and you have to live it to the fullest. Speaking about hotels, resorts, spas, motels which most probably don’t have any information about a person conviction history. Though, leaving and entry the country can be a matter of worrying. If your husband is still passing through the trial procedures, then the officers most probably won’t let him out of the country. If the trial process is done and the lawyer gives you green light for travelling abroad, then why not? In case you haven’t decide yet where to travel in Gatlinburg there is a great, quite and welcoming resort.

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Luckylad90

Member since
March 2024

1 post

Posted Sat March 2, 2024 2:42pmReport post

Can anyone tell me if they know if you can travel to Dubai with a conviction and under registration requirements?



Asking for a family member

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

392 posts

Posted Mon March 4, 2024 10:40amReport post

Unlock are probably the best to check with, because the rules vary so much between countries.

https://unlock.org.uk/topic/travel/

At the moment Europe is ok. I've not heard of anyone being turned away. But countries in south Asia, like Thailand, Vietnam should be avoided because the police see them as high risk and they might notify the authorities, if they know you are going there.

It is still possible to get into the USA or Australia, if you are prepared to go through a very long winded visa application process.

When it comes to green notices, I would be careful, because green notices are something that will cause problems in all countries. Thankfully they are extremely rare and only issued for offenders regarded as higher risk. Green notices are not issued automatically. There should be a risk assessment done first and it is not a decision that is taken by the VISOR themselves.

There is a lot of misinformation about travel, because some people appear to have no problems anywhere and others get turned away from the same countries. Don't assume that just because another person got in, that you will have no issues and vice versa. Police themselves are often giving out misleading information, saying certain countries are not safe, but remember that they know no more than you do, about travel.

VISORs do not take decisions on travel themselves. They are not experts. It's done by a specialist department within each police force, called the International liaison team.

Bub84

Member since
January 2024

117 posts

Posted Mon March 4, 2024 3:01pmReport post

Sorry to jump on your post.. does anyone know if it's possible to travel to Florida whilst OH is RUI?

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

392 posts

Posted Tue March 5, 2024 10:10amReport post

Being RUI effectively means you can go anywhere, as if you have no restrictions at all.

Confusedwife

Member since
October 2022

169 posts

Posted Tue March 5, 2024 12:00pmReport post

Bub Iv messaged you.



also thought I'd comment in case it helps anyone else wondering the same.

we have traveled to Florida since my husband has been on Rui and absolutely no issues at all with travelling and getting through customs.

When he was first on Rui the oic tried to tell him he couldn't go which was lies which his solicitor cleared up and confirmed he could go. So the police will probably try lie to you about it, but your innocent until proven otherwise so they cannot stop you if your Rui.

Lost4Words

Member since
August 2022

90 posts

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Confusedwife

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October 2022

169 posts

Posted Fri March 15, 2024 9:46amReport post

Lost for words

when My husband was Rui the oic tried to say he still has bail conditions but his solicitor wouldn't have any of that and wasn't happy, he told them he's either on bail or Rui not both. So I would maybe get your solicitor to confirm that as I'm pretty sure they can't place bail restrictions if your Rui.



as long as no charges yet then fine to travel to Florida, my husband just had an esta that we already had before he was arrested.

Angelblue

Member since
April 2024

1 post

Posted Thu April 25, 2024 4:21pmReport post

Hi, does anybody know where our family can go for a holiday in the uk as partner is on the sor? Haven has cancelled our booking because we told the police where we were going and they informed haven. This is the first time since the conviction that we have attempted to have a holiday so I'm not sure what to do now? Can we hire a privately owned caravan (not part of a holiday park chain like haven or parkdean) or a hotel? Any suggestions welcome! Thanks

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

367 posts

Posted Thu April 25, 2024 8:53pmReport post

Ia it park of the SHPO that you have to tell them all overnight stays away from home? As otherwise, if less than 7 days you don't have to inform for the SOR

It is in most large holiday park T&C's that people on the SOR can't go, so you'd have to read each individual one.

We have booked with an independent one for 5 nights and don't intend to inform as there is no requirement to for this length of time

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Thu April 25, 2024 9:10pmReport post

We haven't found any sites that accept, but we've used air b&B for the past two years with no problems. My oh informs police and probation of every break even a night away it's not in his conditions but it's just something his down from the start

Lost4Words

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August 2022

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Dta52gc

Member since
September 2024

3 posts

Posted Mon September 23, 2024 9:56amReport post

Hi since conviction we havnt been abroad and the thought terrifies me! Were considering going to Turkey for a week and wondered if anybody else has experience of travelling to Turkey whilst on the register? Also for anyone on the SORor my case with someone on SOR I'd appreciate your own experience of going through the airport both departing and landing especially passport control. Also any advice on countries you've been to and had a positive/negative experience.

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Mandymoo

Member since
September 2021

297 posts

Posted Mon September 23, 2024 10:43pmReport post

Been to Spain and canaries twice. Absolutely no issues at all

Dta52gc

Member since
September 2024

3 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 11:01amReport post

Thank you has anyone else got any experience of flying outside the EU and within I'm so terrified it's putting me off booking for the family.

Bobbie

Member since
June 2024

30 posts

Posted Sat September 28, 2024 12:24amReport post

We flew to turkey with our son who is on SOR this summer and there were no issues at all

Dta52gc

Member since
September 2024

3 posts

Posted Wed October 2, 2024 7:56pmReport post

Thank you Bobbie that makes me feel a bit better as Turkey is one place we want to go.

Don’t know what to do

Member since
February 2024

14 posts

Posted Sat October 5, 2024 4:21pmReport post

Wonder if we will ever go to Disney Paris again.
has anyone got experience?

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

367 posts

Posted Sun October 6, 2024 10:21amReport post

We went to Disney Paris after sentencing.

We booked an Airbnb off site, and this was the info we gave to Mosovo. They were supportive of us going on holiday as a family (we have a young child). MOSOVO didn't ask what we would be doing on the holiday and we didn't tell them details. We had a brilliant time!

I was worried if we stayed on site it might flag concerns but to be honest I think I overthought this! Then again the Airbnb was lovely and much cheaper.

We drove and got the ferry and had no issues at passport control.

After the ETIAS visa comes in next spring/summer it may be more difficult as the offence may need to be declared on the application.

Before sentencing you should be fine depending on bail conditions regarding you all sleeping in the same place etc.