i’m scared for what could happen
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this is only my second post here but i'm thinking about it all. so my ex boyfriend was found out for viewing explicit stuff of children online 2 weeks ago. i broke up with him when i found out because i thought it was something he would never do. out of everyone i know he seemed the least likely to do anything like that. i cried for a week. that he'd done something awful, that's id lost him cause of it, why did he do it.
it's been nearly 2 weeks now and I am talking to him again because he has no one else and no support. I'm having to hide this from everyone in my life because of how they'd react. they told me all to cut contact but i just can't. I'm scared they will find out and I'm scared they will hate me for it and i'll lose family abd/or friends. i'm mainly so so scared for my parents to find out, especially as i still live with them. i'm trying to hide it for a few months at least, or until the trial which is meant to be in may and we get a verdict.
im just so scared people will find out and im scared of the repercussions on me for supporting someone who's done this. as in having to hide it from everyone, i cant talk to anyone.
does anyone have any advice on how to approach telling my parents if i have to of if they find out? i know theyll have to know one day but im so scared for that day.
im also scared for him on whats going to happen to him and what our life is going to look like if i stay with him, especially if he gets sent to jail or gets like permanently put on the offenders register. i don't want to leave him but and i can't leave him bit im scared for life afterwards especially if people find out he's on list. i know you have to disclose it to places you wanna move to and stuff. im just really scared of what people will think of me and how it might ruin relationships with my family and friends and its been stressing me out all week.
it's been nearly 2 weeks now and I am talking to him again because he has no one else and no support. I'm having to hide this from everyone in my life because of how they'd react. they told me all to cut contact but i just can't. I'm scared they will find out and I'm scared they will hate me for it and i'll lose family abd/or friends. i'm mainly so so scared for my parents to find out, especially as i still live with them. i'm trying to hide it for a few months at least, or until the trial which is meant to be in may and we get a verdict.
im just so scared people will find out and im scared of the repercussions on me for supporting someone who's done this. as in having to hide it from everyone, i cant talk to anyone.
does anyone have any advice on how to approach telling my parents if i have to of if they find out? i know theyll have to know one day but im so scared for that day.
im also scared for him on whats going to happen to him and what our life is going to look like if i stay with him, especially if he gets sent to jail or gets like permanently put on the offenders register. i don't want to leave him but and i can't leave him bit im scared for life afterwards especially if people find out he's on list. i know you have to disclose it to places you wanna move to and stuff. im just really scared of what people will think of me and how it might ruin relationships with my family and friends and its been stressing me out all week.
I managed to keep it from my Mum and she died not in knowing thankfully. I didn't tell any other family till he was jailed. I live 500 miles from family so didn't see anyone so it was easier for me
I lost a lot of friends but those that stuck by me and helped me through are the knee that count. I will be forever grateful to them.
People are very quick to judge but they have no idea what you are going through. Take your time. No decision needs to be made now.
I lost a lot of friends but those that stuck by me and helped me through are the knee that count. I will be forever grateful to them.
People are very quick to judge but they have no idea what you are going through. Take your time. No decision needs to be made now.