I'm just wondering how many of you have been made aware of your person offending by PHG?
I found out online, having to watch the 45 minute live video of my person admitting everything he'd done. We don't live in the same city.
I had called the police in his area the day after and asked for a welfare check as not hearing from him was unheard of. They told me "he's an adult and he probably just doesn't like you or doesn't want to talk to you anymore". He must have been in custody at the time, cruel way to treat someone who has no idea what's happened to their best friend.
I'm just wondering how people cope with having to watch them be questioned like this. Seeing the comments. Finding out exactly what they said or did, all on social media.
I found out online, having to watch the 45 minute live video of my person admitting everything he'd done. We don't live in the same city.
I had called the police in his area the day after and asked for a welfare check as not hearing from him was unheard of. They told me "he's an adult and he probably just doesn't like you or doesn't want to talk to you anymore". He must have been in custody at the time, cruel way to treat someone who has no idea what's happened to their best friend.
I'm just wondering how people cope with having to watch them be questioned like this. Seeing the comments. Finding out exactly what they said or did, all on social media.
Hey,
sorry this happened to you too. And I m sorry for the shitty comment you got from police when you must have been really worried.
I became aware pretty much the same way. My person was my partner and travelling the days of offence and arrest. After on a Saturday morning my messages didn t go through anymore I got worried. I waited some hours, called everyone I thought could know something, took a plane the next day, drove around the area I expected him to be, searched him eveeywhere like a maniac. I thought he was dead. At night I googled his name and the city and the video of that vigilante raid and the "arrest poster" popped up... I never managed to watch more than the first few minutes, it broke my heart.
Again really sorry you find yourself here, sending you my best wishes
sorry this happened to you too. And I m sorry for the shitty comment you got from police when you must have been really worried.
I became aware pretty much the same way. My person was my partner and travelling the days of offence and arrest. After on a Saturday morning my messages didn t go through anymore I got worried. I waited some hours, called everyone I thought could know something, took a plane the next day, drove around the area I expected him to be, searched him eveeywhere like a maniac. I thought he was dead. At night I googled his name and the city and the video of that vigilante raid and the "arrest poster" popped up... I never managed to watch more than the first few minutes, it broke my heart.
Again really sorry you find yourself here, sending you my best wishes
PHG turned up at our home back in September - I only watched the video a few weeks ago as I couldn't bring myself to it