Some people escape from their problems with drink or drugs, some use comfort eating for example. But everybody will have something they turn to as a coping mechanism, because it has worked for them before.

With internet offending, I think it is the escape into a fantasy world that appeals. They do not view it as real life and do not really see the harms they cause, because they are at a distance from it.

Often it will start with legal porn and escalate from there, in the same way that an occasional drink sometimes becomes full blown alcoholism.

Hi lovely. I feel for you as I find myself in a similar position. My son was arrested last weekend following a vigilante sting. It was live streamed on Facebook. I'm sure he now feels more isolated than ever. I absolutely do not condone his offence, but feel so sorry for him because he feels like everyone is looking at him. I'm worried incase he self harms.

I'm sorry I don't have any answers for you as I'm totally new to this myself and still in shock. He's such a quiet inoffensive lad and I don't think he knows himself why he did it. I just wanted to reach out and let you know that your definitely not on your own even though it feels that way doesn't it. But I do think having others that are going through this to talk to helps immensely.

Sending hugs x Message me if you want to x