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N.S.M

Member since
February 2026

59 posts

So after weeks of threats from SS I have come to a point where I can't take it anymore - it's making me sick, and putting so much strain on my mental health.

I have applied for housing (which my SW told me there's a 3 year wait), I am currently living in my partners house which is owned but he is living with his Mum.

How do I go about telling the SW I'm ending my relationship? But I will have to remain in this home until a suitable house is available for me and my child.

OH who is currently investigation for a sexual conversation with a 14 year old decoy hunter group, and he is step father to my 6 year old daughter, and has been for 4 / 5 years

Posted Fri February 27, 2026 1:47pmReport post

Lucy from Stop it Now!

Member since
September 2018

703 posts

Hello,

Thank you for posting on the Family and Friends Forum. We wanted to contribute to your thread as it seems you have not received a response just yet, but we hope that some of our Forum users will be able to respond to offer you some support soon. Our Forum is quite active, so occasionally posts may be missed, but we encourage you to check in frequently for a reply, as responses often come in with time.

In the meantime, if you have not already reached out, I would gently encourage you to contact our Stop It Now helpline. It is a free, confidential, and anonymous service available on 0808 1000 900. Our trained advisors are there to listen, explore your situation with you, and provide tailored support. You can find more information about the helpline and chat service, as well as our opening hours here.

We hope that someone will respond to your post soon, so that you can receive some support from our Forum users.

Take care,

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Posted Mon March 9, 2026 5:03pmReport post


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