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Runawaygirl

Member since
March 2023

118 posts

Given the offence was all online and internet related, why do they insist on imposing restrictions in the real world? ie if we spend any time in the company of under 18s, we have to tell their parents that he's on the SOR.

I guess it's all risk-based and they don't know whether he's likely to go on to commit a contact offence but hasn't someone come up with some statistics about the likihood and it's very low?

Wouldn't that suggest that real world restrictions are disproportionate? The punishment should fit the crime so I get the requirement to monitor his internet usage but anything else connected to real people seems wholly unnecessary and hugely excessive.

Has anyone got any experience of their solicitor negotiating the proposed terms of the SHPO to something more proporationate?

Posted Sun March 1, 2026 2:03pmReport post

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

1089 posts

Hi, Prior to the introduction of the 2024 guidelines on the prediction and assessment of sexual reoffending, online sexual communication offences were frequently treated in a similar manner to contact sexual offences when determining risk management measures. As a result, Sexual Harm Prevention Orders (SHPOs) commonly included blanket prohibitions such as: no contact with anyone under the age of 18, or no unsupervised contact with anyone under 18 unless expressly agreed in advance by parents and/or social services.

However, the updated 2024 guidance now categorises both indecent images of children (IIOC) offences and online sexual communication offences as indirect offences, recognising the distinction between online communication and physical contact behaviour. Despite this reclassification, SHPO conditions imposed in cases involving online sexual communication offences do not consistently reflect this change. In practice, many orders continue to mirror those historically applied to contact offenders, without sufficient individualised consideration of risk, proportionality, or the nature of the index offence.

My sons conviction is for sexual communication and his SHPO has the 'no unsupervised contact with under 18's unless agreed by children's services and the parents' restriction in it.

He ensures he never has unsupervised contact with children but following assessments by Children’s Services and his Offender Manager, it has been agreed that he is now able to care for and parent his own children unsupervised for one day per week. This progression reflects the professional view that the current level of risk is manageable and that appropriate safeguards are in place.

This phased approach ensures that any increase in responsibility is carefully monitored and remains proportionate to assessed risk with the intention that it will be gradually increase over time.


Posted Sun March 1, 2026 3:03pmReport post

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

686 posts

Once an SHPO is in place, it can only be changed by going back to court. You could check the Unlock website for advice on doing that. No need to hire a solicitor, but it would be helpful, if you can afford one.

The police powers to disclose to parents of other children for example, exist outside of the SHPO and they cannot be changed.

Posted Mon March 2, 2026 10:30amReport post

lostinthewoods

Member since
September 2024

247 posts

We discussed the terms of the SHPO with his solicitor prior to sentencing. She agreed that they were harsh and not relevant to the offence (online).

She contested the terms in court and, despite the prosecution insisting that it was proportionate, the magistrates agreed with our solicitor.

We ended up with him not being allowed to enter or remain in a household with anyone under 18, rather than a complete blanket no contact.

This meant we can go to family events and, as long as it's not within a household setting (pub, hotel, church etc all fine) then it's fine.

With the grandkids we ok'd with SS and my daughter so we can have them at the house and we can go to theirs.

If you think it's disproportionate then it's worth asking your solicitor/barrister to argue it

Posted Mon March 2, 2026 3:28pmReport post

Sunshine&Rainbows

Member since
July 2025

190 posts

Usually the SHPOs are very much linked to the offence. But they can put things in place to help protect children. Its usually things like cannot have unsupervised contact with under 18s without the say so of SS. It usually depends on mitigating circumstances, how good your lawyer is and if its relevant to the period theyre on SHPO. You can always fight it back in court but whether it will grt changed or not, you would need to seek legal advise on to see if its worth fighting or stick it out for the period of the SHPO

Posted Mon March 2, 2026 3:33pmReport post

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