Life continues to be on hold
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Hi All
I have not posted on here for quite a while but today is a year ago since the knock, a year ago sincd life got turned upside down.
I am not quite sure how I am feeling. We have had social services close our case which is good. Bail conditions got altered so he could have unsupervosed contact with our child so that has helped massively. Just no contact with others. Police extended bail and at 9 months the court extended to the 12 month mark, and today has been extended for another 3 months.
While most days are "normal", its just so hard with everything hanging over us and no end in sight. None of devices have even been looked at yet and i just dont know how long i can keep doing this.
Life is on hold and I am struggling.
I have not posted on here for quite a while but today is a year ago since the knock, a year ago sincd life got turned upside down.
I am not quite sure how I am feeling. We have had social services close our case which is good. Bail conditions got altered so he could have unsupervosed contact with our child so that has helped massively. Just no contact with others. Police extended bail and at 9 months the court extended to the 12 month mark, and today has been extended for another 3 months.
While most days are "normal", its just so hard with everything hanging over us and no end in sight. None of devices have even been looked at yet and i just dont know how long i can keep doing this.
Life is on hold and I am struggling.
Hi Confused, Living in limbo is so difficult because you’ve got this big cloud hanging over you all the time. I don’t think there’s very much I can say to make it any easier for you, because nothing really takes away the uncertainty. But please know you don’t have to carry this on your own. There are people here to help and support you through these difficult days.
It’s completely understandable that your emotions are all over the place. Try to take things one day at a time, even one hour at a time if that’s all you can manage. You don’t have to solve everything right now.
Whatever happens, you will get through it, and life will eventually seem a little brighter even if it doesn’t feel like that today.