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Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

65 posts

Hi IAM asking for a friend he partner as breach is shpo 3 times and has been remanded in prison since September I met her on a prison visit

She said he was pleading guilty to one charge and not guilty to 2 charges basically she had a miscarriage and couldn't pick her son up from school so she sent her new partner as he hadn't told her what he was in prison for he's gone to school and use is mums maiden name as well to cover it up and Been living at this address with her and the children with out informing the police about he's in crown court on Friday he's told her he will be out with a suspended sentence and she says social services want him out as well

IAM thinking it will go to trail with pleading guilty to 3 of the 3 charges

She's even got her mum to have the children so she can spend time with him

I personally think she's getting her hopes up here is it just me as he will be classed as rev offendering but he's not actually done anything to children tho

Just don't want her to be upset and her mental health go down on Friday shall I not say anything are just tell her to not get her hopes up ( I only met her Saturday on a prison visit and was really upset )

Posted Mon March 2, 2026 3:07pmReport post

Lostandalone

Member since
September 2024

67 posts

I'm not sure I've fully understood.
He had a previous offence which his SHPO was for, but he was living with her and her children without declaring it and went to the school using a different name rather than the name he's got the SHPO with?



did she know any of this before hand? I understand love can make us want to see the best in people but I'd be very upset if I hadn't know and very wary going forward.
best of luck to her.

I suppose I wouldn't be offering any advice to her re the legal side of things. I'd just be offering a listening ear for her.

if I've misunderstood any of this - sorry!

Posted Mon March 2, 2026 7:51pm
Edited Mon March 2, 2026 7:52pmReport post

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