Friday/weekend check in
Notifications OFFThis last week has been hard. I have been trying to keep myself positive and move forward, but this week has been a challenge. Horrendous roadworks around where i live have closed roads completely overnight so have not been able to go out to my line dancing. It has made me realise how much i need it to keep going. But they will finish next week so there is an end. I am extremely tired so that is not helping.
But no overtime this weekend. So meeting up with my sister tomorrow for a cuppa and retail therapy, and Sunday taking my furbabies out. Housework inbetween but cant have it all easy, lol.
My house is a mess, but it is not hurting anyone so it will be done when i am able. Learning to take things easy when i can.
Hope everyone has a good weekend and week ahead.
I’ve continued walking to work this week and I’m really enjoying it. It’s a great way to start the day and it definitely beats sitting in long queues of traffic or trying to navigate the latest big diversion. Instead of frustration behind the wheel, I get a bit of fresh air, some time to listen to a podcast or simply clear my head, and a chance to ease into the day at a calmer pace.
With the days getting lighter now, the walk feels even better. It’s a small change, almost unnoticeable day by day, but over time it adds up. Before long the darker days of winter give way to longer, brighter ones. That simple shift can bring with it a sense of hope. During difficult times it can feel as though everything has paused, as though the weight of what you're going through will last forever. But just like the changing seasons, life moves forward whether we realise it or not. Sometimes hope doesn’t arrive in dramatic ways. Often it comes quietly, in small reminders around us, a brighter morning, a longer evening, a moment when you realise you've got through another day. Watching the days getting lighter can be a gentle reminder that even after the darkest periods, light slowly finds its way back.
Sunshine, sorry to hear you've had to deal with poorly children on top, sick bugs are the worst! Hope she's better now and you don't get it. Sounds like some progress in the process though which is postive.
Like Webb89, been a really tough one. No real developments just the brutal back to reality after a nice weekend away last weekend where we could taste a little normality. Then back to the conditions, the gift that keeps on giving, causing more unfair pain and heartache as normal life is impossible. Been very down, and full of cough/ cold and really tired which hasn't helped. But it's Friday and the weekend! And good to hear from others ...
one day at a time!
Some days are better than others I just hope everything works itself out.
One day at a time...
Hasn t been a great week for me tbh. I finally got an appointment with abuse charity where I took my son to tell him about the offending. He took it ok-ish but now is scared to see our person again. He was remanded and will be out next week. Haven t seen him face to face since the arrest so it will be the first time I can actually properly talk to him - I m not looking forward to it...
I also need to talk to my son s dad and I m sure he ll freak out so more cheerfull things to look out to :(
At least the weather is fine so I ll enjoy some time outside with friends and try to distract myself.
I wish you all a good weekend
With my son in prison I feel sick every moment of every day. When he is sentenced & hopefully will be placed in a specialist prison I may be able to start to cope as I know he'll be safer there than where he is now. I can't sleep & dread going to bed, then wake about 5.30am.
I know I cannot go on like this, but I will never be ok while he is locked up. But I do need to be able to function better than I am now.
I am sorry you are having a hard time, but you are here, and you are surviving. I know at times it may feel you are not. If every week, you post, and you feel it is not positive please do not worry. We are here to support you, hold you hand, confirm you are not alone. And we hear you.
That goes to everyone who posts. Please do not worry if posts are not positive, we are all here through the good times and the bad.