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N.S.M

Member since
February 2026

52 posts

Hello

So my ex (step-dad to little girl) is due to answer to bail tomorrow. After the first 3 months he just recieved an email to say it had been extended for another 3 months then this was confirmed in the post. This time he hasn't heard a thing but does have a letter stating what time to go to the police station. He called his solicitor last week to ask if he'd heard anything, and said he will try chase things up but it would be unlikely he would be questioned as he would need his solicitor there and they've heard nothing. He's obviously very anxious about tomorrow, just wondered if anyone has been in a similar situation? Very new to all of this, and never been in a situation like this prior so it's just all very known.

Posted Mon March 16, 2026 10:22amReport post

Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

79 posts

Hi lovely just to let you know my lo didn't have a second interview and was charged when he answered his bail and given a court date xx

Posted Mon March 16, 2026 12:14pmReport post

N.S.M

Member since
February 2026

52 posts

Thanks for your response - did he have any warning of this? And how come he didn't have a second interview? My ex was told to just say no comment in his first interview, this was after being knocked on my a peodophile hunter group.

Posted Mon March 16, 2026 12:21pmReport post

Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

79 posts

Mine was the same no think their had enough to charge with the evidence from the the logs etc send me a private message if you want xx

Posted Mon March 16, 2026 2:21pmReport post

Poppy2323

Member since
June 2025

79 posts

Mine was the same no think their had enough to charge with the evidence from the the logs etc send me a private message if you want xx

Posted Mon March 16, 2026 2:21pmReport post

Sunshine&Rainbows

Member since
July 2025

201 posts

We always got a letter stating my husband had to go to the police station. His solicitor would always call in the morning and go youre bail has been extended no need to go to the station. When they called him back for interview they asked when he was free. So be arranged a day for it. It wasnt you must come in today sort of thing. I dont know if this varies case by case

Posted Mon March 16, 2026 8:55pmReport post

N.S.M

Member since
February 2026

52 posts

His bail has been extended. Unfortunately SS have told them he's been sleeping on the sofa on a night so they've added a curfew as to what time he's not allowed here but it doesn't effect us as he's never here anyway on a night.

I'm just upset that SS are lying, and making up ridiculous accusations that aren't even true. I think it's time to put in a complaint as this isn't the first time. It's almost like it's becoming personal as the SW told me something personal about her life.

Posted Tue March 17, 2026 2:20pmReport post

6789

Member since
May 2025

166 posts

Yes. Do make a complaint. They must be held to account.

Posted Tue March 17, 2026 7:17pmReport post


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