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Mavis

Member since
March 2026

7 posts

I have been in this living nightmare for around a month now with police, social workers and trying to work and get my kids to school. I think I have disassociated myself a bit to try and get through it all however things have come to a point where the kids don't want to go to school and I'm struggling in work. I have a doctor's appointment this afternoon to discuss time off but I'm not sure what it should go down as. I was off last year for 4 months due to anxiety and depression/ menopause and I can only get 6 months paid off work. We can apply for more and get paid but they do not allow you to be off with anxiety etc. Any suggestions. I know it's a strange thing to be worried or fixated on but currently my mind is all over the place and I really don't know what to do for the best

Posted Tue March 17, 2026 8:56amReport post

Knightmare

Member since
December 2025

31 posts

Hey Mavis,

sorry you find yourself here.

I m not UK based so maybe the doctors have different criteria where you are but I got a sick note for ptsd symptomatic - was offered 1 month off and didn t go again for another note as in my case work was a good therapy ( helped to keep me busy). I imagine the symptoms would be sufficient for the doctor to give 2 months too.

I wish you all the best and hope your appointment goes well and that your little ones get better too.

Posted Tue March 17, 2026 8:01pmReport post

OneStepAtATime

Member since
October 2025

105 posts

I had a month off and it was put down as 'family stress' or something equally generic and understatement of the century!!

Posted Tue March 17, 2026 10:18pmReport post

Mavis

Member since
March 2026

7 posts

Thanks for coming back to me. After speaking with the doctor we have gone with stress at home. I've been signed off for a month so hoping I can get me and my two boys in a bit more of a stable mindset by then

Posted Wed March 18, 2026 1:40pmReport post

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

385 posts

Yes I had about eight weeks off and it was put down as stress but my manager knew the reason why I was off so I don't know if that made a difference xx

Posted Wed March 18, 2026 2:14pmReport post


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