Struggling so much
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Had an awful few days. Recap, Son arrested on suspicion of sending iioc to someone on Snapchat in 2024 and was arrested in July 2025, he's been bailed up until April 2026 but now they're applying to the court to be able to extend bail further, they have delivered a copy of the application to the court and just to see everything written down in black and white just nearly knocked the stuffing out of me and I'm massively struggling, it's like having the knock again. We are still waiting on forensics and it all scares me so so much, I wish I could run away - I can't take any of this much longer.
I'm so sorry, this situation is traumatising again and again isn't it. I hope you have people you can turn to? You've got us xx
It really is the most painful thing :( my husbands OIC applied to the court for an extension of bail from 12 months to 18 months and it was granted but then the solicitor managed to get it overturned and was changed to RUI. Maybe that could be something to look into? I don't know how different it would be though going from bail to RUI as we have a child so restrictions were still there but may not be for your son? My husband was arrested May 2024 and just had plea hearing a few weeks ago... coming up to the two year mark!
