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MAW71

Member since
February 2026

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Hi, I'm 8 weeks post knock, now separated as we have 2 foster children and SS gave me the choice of the children or my husband, I chose the children. Completed Section 47 and SS are happy that children are safe with me. All I know is that husband was arrested for IIOC , all devices checked when they raided the house, only husbands phone got took away for forensics. He is on 3 month bail living in shared accommodation. We have no contact now , he admitted porn addiction and talking to women on line something that I caught him doing 12 years ago and told him if I caught him doing it again it would finish our marriage, never thought it would be IIOC, that sickens me. Because of no contact I don't know what he been charged with all I know he's on bail for 3 months and it could be up to 2 years before forensics come back. Police found something on his phone but wouldn't tell me , would they have told my husband as he claims he's innocent.So sorry we are all in this hell.

Posted Fri March 27, 2026 1:09pmReport post

Lucy from Stop it Now!

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September 2018

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Hello,

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