Finally made it to court
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so yesterday we finally made it to court after two years should've been in court at 11 o'clock hearing didn't end up taking place until 3 o'clock and oh my God what an eye-opener it was
It was awful to have to hear the things that my OH had been messaging. All I can say is thank God it was a police decoy and not an actual child and her mother. I feel so numb hurt upset words cannot express how I truly feel the lies. He has told me over the conversation he allegedly had so different to the one he actually had. I just don't know what to say or how to feel.the sad part of it is he made it all about him and about what he's done to get help, et cetera but it worked. He got a three year suspended 150 hours community serviceI think I'm still in shock with what was read out from the messages and conversations he was having. I don't think I've stopped crying since I've left the courtroom.he came and found me afterwards and all he could say to me was sorry sorry for what sorry because he got caught sorry for lying to me.but he hasn't spoken to me since the court room. Normally he will text me in the evening but he couldn't even text me last night to see if I was okay. I don't know what to do. I just feel so lost happy betrayed.
It was awful to have to hear the things that my OH had been messaging. All I can say is thank God it was a police decoy and not an actual child and her mother. I feel so numb hurt upset words cannot express how I truly feel the lies. He has told me over the conversation he allegedly had so different to the one he actually had. I just don't know what to say or how to feel.the sad part of it is he made it all about him and about what he's done to get help, et cetera but it worked. He got a three year suspended 150 hours community serviceI think I'm still in shock with what was read out from the messages and conversations he was having. I don't think I've stopped crying since I've left the courtroom.he came and found me afterwards and all he could say to me was sorry sorry for what sorry because he got caught sorry for lying to me.but he hasn't spoken to me since the court room. Normally he will text me in the evening but he couldn't even text me last night to see if I was okay. I don't know what to do. I just feel so lost happy betrayed.
Ow ow ow. The betrayal. The gruesome details. So much for you to try and get your head around. So sorry :( .
So sorry. Its absolutely grim that he left you to face it like that in court rather than being completely honest with you in advance. Plenty of these men are absolute cowards.
Stan Cat
I am so sorry for what you had to find out via the court and not been told the truth from him
Of course you will be in turmoil but the most important thing is to take some much needed time for you , I hope you have someone to reach out to for support
Not much help I know but just could not read your post and not comment
Sending you huge hugs lovely xx
I am so sorry for what you had to find out via the court and not been told the truth from him
Of course you will be in turmoil but the most important thing is to take some much needed time for you , I hope you have someone to reach out to for support
Not much help I know but just could not read your post and not comment
Sending you huge hugs lovely xx
