My ex is living with family whilst I live with mine along with our 18 week old son.

This is the second offence since we've been together and the first knock happened around 2022 I believe. Second knock happened two weeks ago.

I chose to stay with him the first time it happened, however I'm staying as far away from him as I can now.

All I want to do is protect my son, that's all I want and I will do anything to do just that.

Since the knock, my ex has messaged me a few times to let us know he misses our son and I every second of the day.

Today he messages me telling me the same thing but that he would also like to meet up with me to talk about lots of things.

For context, he is under investigation and all our devices were taken but I've still got my phone thankfully. He is under investigation for having IIOC on a device of his, however of course they need to check all the others.

I'm just at a crossroads, i don't want to discuss things I shouldn't know as want to protect myself. But a little part of me wants to know what exactly he wants to talk about? It worries me as he specifically said he wants to talk about a lot of things, like what? It's causing a bit of a mental spiral...