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So started my protective assessment last week which actually makes me sad as it's me that hasn't done anything wrong.
No longer in a relationship, but am currently living in his house until i hear something from housing but limited contact with my little girl (he is/was step dad)
Feel like the assessment is going OK, a little nervous about the one next week as it's looking into my background which I think will be difficult .
Have filed a complaint against SW for lots of reasons, who is now currently on long term sick is this normal behaviour? So currently my little girl doesn't have a social worker and hasn't done for about a month? She is on a cpp, next conference isn't until July which I hoping she can come off it
No longer in a relationship, but am currently living in his house until i hear something from housing but limited contact with my little girl (he is/was step dad)
Feel like the assessment is going OK, a little nervous about the one next week as it's looking into my background which I think will be difficult .
Have filed a complaint against SW for lots of reasons, who is now currently on long term sick is this normal behaviour? So currently my little girl doesn't have a social worker and hasn't done for about a month? She is on a cpp, next conference isn't until July which I hoping she can come off it
Hey I had a protective parenting assessment to. I found having something to fiddle with super helpful. I panicked a lot and kept thinking I was going to fail it. But they assessed me as a protective parent.
If you dont want to discuss something you dont have to with them. They ask a lot of questions and they dont judge. Theyre not trying to trip you up. They just want to understand you.
I know have our supervising SS worker because my old SS was "going on leave"
If you dont want to discuss something you dont have to with them. They ask a lot of questions and they dont judge. Theyre not trying to trip you up. They just want to understand you.
I know have our supervising SS worker because my old SS was "going on leave"
I feel I end up just mumbling. After such a horrific experience with Social Services it's knocked me even more so, it's made me feel I aren't good enough. I know how to protect my little girl so I'm confident it will come back fine but I just have visions on the old SW saying bad stuff, and that will change their mind. It's been an awful time ????
SS really do destroy us. They will tell you at the end a basic overview of what theyre going to put as it takes 2 to 3 weeks to write the report. They then will tell you roughly what their plan for moving forwards is.
The results could be possitive or negative depending on his assessment if he is having one too. But LFF are the best people for recommendations, so SS usually go with them.
We have had SS go we will look at their suggestion and see what the other professional state to see if they agree. Its like they dont want to be the ones to say yes. They want to palm it onto others so if he offended again its not on them. Which annoys me because really they're the ones with the power and not the others.
The results could be possitive or negative depending on his assessment if he is having one too. But LFF are the best people for recommendations, so SS usually go with them.
We have had SS go we will look at their suggestion and see what the other professional state to see if they agree. Its like they dont want to be the ones to say yes. They want to palm it onto others so if he offended again its not on them. Which annoys me because really they're the ones with the power and not the others.
So turned up to my Core Meeting today, and of course no show - 4 weeks, and my daughtet still hasn't been designated with a social worker when she is on a CPP. I feel like saying if you aren't capable of sticking to my daughters CPP don't put her on one.
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