Partner put on SRO
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My partner has been put on a SRO because they found 1 image cat C on an old mobile device ????
We don't live together and I'm pregnant but he comes down 2/3days a week . When he signed the SRO at police station he gave my details and my kids details over , does this mean social services will be involved? Will they stop him from seeing his child . Im worried social services are gonna be involved now
We don't live together and I'm pregnant but he comes down 2/3days a week . When he signed the SRO at police station he gave my details and my kids details over , does this mean social services will be involved? Will they stop him from seeing his child . Im worried social services are gonna be involved now
He will have had to give the details of your address and children when he registered onto the SOR, as he visits there. SS will become involved now, yes. He will probably only be permitted to see his child at your home when SS are satisfied that safeguarding measures are adequate. He is unlikely to be allowed to stay overnight there, or possibly even come into the property.
Sorry :(
Sorry :(
Wow really? Even tho is order says he is still allowed round kids? And the one image they found was from 2017?
What order is that? Community Order? Did he get a SHPO? The SOR conditions usually prohibit being with children more than 12 hrs, and SS are likely to want him to stay away until they are satisfied children are safe.
Sexual risk order hes been told hes allowed around kids but has to inform police if he stays somewhere longer than 12hrs and he gave my name and my kids names . Or maybe it is SOR .
But sounds like they lied to him tbh because officer told him social wouldn't be involved but took my name address and my kids names
But sounds like they lied to him tbh because officer told him social wouldn't be involved but took my name address and my kids names
Okay so just found out he is on SOR but without the SHPO
Ss msy contact you. What ss want to know is are you fully informed on what theyre sentenced to. The conditions of the sentencing and what you will be doing to safeguard your child.
My husband has a 2 year suspended sentence, 5 year SHPO and 10 years on the register. He has no restrictions on under 18s and we didnt need any SS approval for anything.
Once SS gave the go ahead for us to have overnights stay he just went to the police station and informed them of him staying over night with an under 18, signed the paper work. They said theyve call SS to check (we expected this, im sure people lie). And thats been that. I still supervise in the sense that I cant leave home alone, and he doesnt do personal care of our toddler alone (which honestly i think in the time prior to the knock was twice because I was either there next to him throwing wipes or helping him because OMG did we have a wriggler from day 1)
My husband has a 2 year suspended sentence, 5 year SHPO and 10 years on the register. He has no restrictions on under 18s and we didnt need any SS approval for anything.
Once SS gave the go ahead for us to have overnights stay he just went to the police station and informed them of him staying over night with an under 18, signed the paper work. They said theyve call SS to check (we expected this, im sure people lie). And thats been that. I still supervise in the sense that I cant leave home alone, and he doesnt do personal care of our toddler alone (which honestly i think in the time prior to the knock was twice because I was either there next to him throwing wipes or helping him because OMG did we have a wriggler from day 1)
Yes SS will be involved. In your shoes. I would be proactive and self-refer (even though I'm 100% sure there will be a referral from the police). SS will be involved one way or another so you might as well get some brownie points for proactively reaching out! There are lots and lots of good threads on here stretching way back about working with SS, putting together safety plans etc. Also find out as much as possible about your partner's offence independently of your partner - Can you do a Claire's Law?
