Update from my sorry old self.
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So it's been a little while amd I'm sure quite a few of you remember by horrendous story and outcome - my son was the offender, 22 images total across all categories including beastialitly and extreme porn. It went live in media within 3 hours of court hearing and subsequently we had an horrendous protest amd my son was removed from home for his safety - my son was 23 is autistic and he received 10 years sor and 10 years shpo. We were completely blindsided by this as was told maximum would be 5 years on the register (I know it could of easily been an immediate prison sentence and potentially life on the registers, so it could definitely of been much worse) what I'm struggling with is the harsh restrictions on the shpo -.no unsupervised contact with anyone under the ages of 16, ok fine but his ppu tells us that this is any kind of contact whether it be supervised or unsuppervised unless SS assess and do a safety plan, his crime was. Internet based only.
I have been reading that after 5 years we can take this back to court and potentially get the shpo dissolved and was wondering if there are any success stories of this, and would there be any media involved (we are more petried of the media than the shpo staying put!)
Also he is doing so well at the moment he has been in temp accommodation since being outted last year and has made some friends, he has now been offered a flat 2 minutes away from our family home and he is extremely nervous of moving, even though hes been told he either accepts it or they will remove him from temp accommodation, how likely is it that he will have to pretty much live from a rucksack and have to move again in the blink of an eye.
I suppose what I'm looking for is what has life after being outted and having it recorded on social media, this was thousands of shares,.comments, etc been like your those who have had the unfortunate luck of going through it??
Also..... Thinking of all the new one at the start of this journey... I promise you will get through this and it does get easier, I'm giving you all the biggest squeeze ever x x x
I have been reading that after 5 years we can take this back to court and potentially get the shpo dissolved and was wondering if there are any success stories of this, and would there be any media involved (we are more petried of the media than the shpo staying put!)
Also he is doing so well at the moment he has been in temp accommodation since being outted last year and has made some friends, he has now been offered a flat 2 minutes away from our family home and he is extremely nervous of moving, even though hes been told he either accepts it or they will remove him from temp accommodation, how likely is it that he will have to pretty much live from a rucksack and have to move again in the blink of an eye.
I suppose what I'm looking for is what has life after being outted and having it recorded on social media, this was thousands of shares,.comments, etc been like your those who have had the unfortunate luck of going through it??
Also..... Thinking of all the new one at the start of this journey... I promise you will get through this and it does get easier, I'm giving you all the biggest squeeze ever x x x
