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Anxiouslywaiting

Member since
May 2026

6 posts

Knock came 7 days ago. Husband arrested and bail conditions no contact with our 17 and 15 year old

Social services involved and appear to be listening and trying to support my sons end of A Level trip next weekend that was pre booked for me and husband to take him on.

Police have said they are happy to amend the bail conditions for husband to come home but social services being less forthcoming

Posted Thu May 28, 2026 1:21pmReport post

Sunshine&Rainbows

Member since
July 2025

240 posts

Sounds classic social services. They still for some reason work on the model of keep sex offender out the home and never let them back in. Your kids are of an age where they can speak their own mind and also be taught in an age appropriate way what should and should not be appropriate sex wise and content wise for them. Thus keeping him out the house if the police are happy to change bail conditions is mad.

Posted Thu May 28, 2026 2:05pm
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Anxiouslywaiting

Member since
May 2026

6 posts

The police have been so reasonable.

Solicitor has said she will get involved if difficult and I think.will be how we need to proceed.

Both children clearly telling SW they want to see Dad and have no concerns at all and if they did they know to talk to an adult

Our son is 18 in a matter of weeks!

Posted Thu May 28, 2026 3:07pmReport post

Upset mother

Member since
March 2025

272 posts

Are your kids on a CIN plan or any assessments been done yet by SS. The whole process of SS being involved is that the childs voice should be central to their assessments. Childrens wishes and views have to be captured. Its ridiculuous what SS are doing considering the age of your children. SS work on the balance of probabilities and can and do often ignore black and white outcomes in criminal court. If someone has shown risky behaviour- SS will latch onto it and not let go. Ask the SW on how they are capturing your childrens wishes and what they are doing about it.

Posted Thu May 28, 2026 4:11pmReport post


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