Apple

Member since
June 2026

1 post

Hi, I'm new to this forum and has taken me 15 months to build up the courage. It's been an awful year. We got the knock 15 months ago. Was completely shocked and felt my world had ended. I have a daughter too. My partner was already on his way to work so the police drove there to arrest him. I haven't seen him since. We weren't married and I told the police I didn't want to see him again in order to protect my daughter. He's been on bail for 15 months the and the police have told me they have gathered their evidence and it's been sent to cps. They said they feel like the cps wouldn't have a problem with charging him. How long have you all had to wait from evidence going to cps till charging. I'm petrified about this all coming out in the press. So sorry for the long post. Strugglied massively since the knock and my mental health has suffered massively. Thank you for reading.

Posted Tue June 2, 2026 8:48amReport post

AnxiousGirl

Member since
December 2023

388 posts

I think it is a bit of a lottery and depends on where you live. We were less than a year from arret to prison but I've heard of people waiting much much longer.

It is a sentence hanging over our heads - but you will get though this i promise. Take care.

Posted Tue June 2, 2026 2:40pmReport post

Bellmoore77

Member since
April 2025

11 posts

Hi . Thank for posting and sharing your story .



my heart breaks for everyone on here and you are amazing ans very strong .

Our families knock came March 2025 , the file was passed to CPS in December 2025 and last Thursday my ex received his plea hearing for 17 June 2026 .

the waiting did my head in but now we have a court date it's knocked me for six and dragged it all back up again .

Good luck x

Posted Tue June 2, 2026 6:47pmReport post


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