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Hate that I've found myself on here. I've read through quite a few of your stories and just wanted to share my own. My partner was arrested September 2025 for distribution which he admitted in the interview. (He was trying to catch people to report them but never emrecueved any information to pass on) Phone was sent off for forensics and that come back in January. He was called in for a second interview and told they found 46 images, 12 CAT A in the system files. I was told half an hour later by the OIC that it was gallery. So thats very confusing.
Case was recieved by cps on may 27th and the OIC said they have 28 days to issue charges or ask for more evidence. My partner maintains that he never downloaded these images and never viewed them. It was on KIK and after reading up on things KIK apparently stores images in the cache so they load quicker?
I dont know what to believe, what to do or anything. Also like to add i am 11 weeks pregnant so it's a very stressful time for us right now. How many peoples person maintained their innocence and were 'innocent' and how many maintained innocence and were ultimately lying? I know people lie in these situations through fear, shame and many other reasons.
Any responses would be more than welcome. I'm in such a pickle my mind is racing my blood pressure is crazy, midwife has referred me for therapy as I scored severe in both depression and anxiety tests with her. She's very concerned. I'm trying my best to look after myself for my children (5,12,15,16) but this is all affecting me so bad i barely sleep. I barely eat. I dont enjoy life anymore.
I want the best for my children obviously. My 5 year old absolutely adores her daddy and this has been so hard on her. The OIC is very supportive and has kept in contact the whole way, he confirmed just the other day he still has no problem with my partner living at the home address but social are totally against this. So we're stuck on what's what. We assumed that if the forensic report showed him actively seeking out this content, purposely downloading it and showed an interest in children then the OIC stance would change? Again not sure how that works.
Case was recieved by cps on may 27th and the OIC said they have 28 days to issue charges or ask for more evidence. My partner maintains that he never downloaded these images and never viewed them. It was on KIK and after reading up on things KIK apparently stores images in the cache so they load quicker?
I dont know what to believe, what to do or anything. Also like to add i am 11 weeks pregnant so it's a very stressful time for us right now. How many peoples person maintained their innocence and were 'innocent' and how many maintained innocence and were ultimately lying? I know people lie in these situations through fear, shame and many other reasons.
Any responses would be more than welcome. I'm in such a pickle my mind is racing my blood pressure is crazy, midwife has referred me for therapy as I scored severe in both depression and anxiety tests with her. She's very concerned. I'm trying my best to look after myself for my children (5,12,15,16) but this is all affecting me so bad i barely sleep. I barely eat. I dont enjoy life anymore.
I want the best for my children obviously. My 5 year old absolutely adores her daddy and this has been so hard on her. The OIC is very supportive and has kept in contact the whole way, he confirmed just the other day he still has no problem with my partner living at the home address but social are totally against this. So we're stuck on what's what. We assumed that if the forensic report showed him actively seeking out this content, purposely downloading it and showed an interest in children then the OIC stance would change? Again not sure how that works.
My now Ex was only arrested Sept 25, we have been told it could be 18 months plus - possibly 3 years. He's been accused of talking to a decoy from a PHG who he thought to be 14 years old. He doesn't tell me much just that he can't remember what was said... there are photos of him in the evidence pack so some of it must be true but I get nothing out of him. He is step dad to my daughter, and has been her whole life so it hurts me that he has potentially or already ruined not my life but hers. SS have been horrific, but that's another story . We have been allocated a new one who is more understanding so fingers crossed things start to move forward on getting rid of them.
Are you children on a CPP?
Hope you are the best you can be, it can't be easy being pregnant that must be an added stress / worry in itself
Are you children on a CPP?
Hope you are the best you can be, it can't be easy being pregnant that must be an added stress / worry in itself
