I am so frustrated. We got the go ahead to start transitioning home and using LFFs recommendations for the transition home. Probation have put a fork in the road to this transition. They dont want us to proceed to more overnight stays until we have "more couple time" so we can "repair our relationship". Well im not sure when they think we have the time. Because he isnt allowed more overnight stays then 2 nights. We do not live close to one another (its a 2 hour train journy one way for him or 3 and a half hours by bus). One of his days off currently he does unpaid work and isnt allowed to just not turn up unless there is a good reason aka work (their words) depsite having a year to complete it. And the other day is the only day he sees our daughter. Ive been told its great I put my daughter first but we now need to look at us. And I didnt say anything at the time but that doesnt sit right with me. He is the one who messed up. I have a toddler who needs me. Who doesnt know whats going on at all and misses her dad.



It doesnt feel right to me that probation can reject moving forwards when moving forwards would allow us more couple time. It also came across as we havent been working on us. When we have been because I wouldnt still be with him if we hadnt.



Im just so frustrated. Ive gone through hell and back to get here.