Barely Coping

Member since
June 2026

1 post

Hi,

So I had the knock approximately 4 months ago. My OH was arrested for online communication offences. He is currently on bail pending investigation. But since the arrest he has declined to tell me anything about why he was arrested in the first place.

Im frustrated as I thought we could be honest with each other but it turns out you never really know a person.

His family have been less than supportive to me and my little boy. In fact his mum actually called social services on ME! This was after his arrest so I can only see this as her being vindictive and trying to lessen the fact hes the one in trouble.

SC were involved however he failed to disclose anything to them about the charges so can only have supervised contact with our child.

His demands for spending time are unreasonable and the fact he thinks he can demand anything is just laughable.

Im highly frustrated with the whole situation and I feel less than supported by SC as we're now a closed case. (What does that even mean?!)

Hes done nothing but threaten me with solicitors and court yet hes the one that's done wrong.

Any advice out there?

Posted Wed June 24, 2026 9:38amReport post

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

733 posts

Did the SS ever become aware of the charges? Did you tell them about his arrest? Did the police tell them?

Does he have any bail conditions? SS should not really close the case until he has been to court and the legal process is concluded.

I understand that his family called them about you, so your case may have been closed, but has anyone contacted SS about him and what he did?

Posted Wed June 24, 2026 10:58amReport post


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