Struggling to cope after relatives arrest

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Nel26

Member since
June 2026

1 post

Hello

I am not sure what to write in this post, a family member was arrested at the beginning of May 2026 for possession of indecent images of children.

I am absolutely devastated by this as I was very close to this person. I have cut all contact with them - I cannot get my head around it at all.

There was mention of some app called "kik" being used but I've no idea what that is.

I have had disclosures made to me by SS due to me having a child who had contact with this person regularly.

I know this person is lying to the one family member who has chosen to maintain contact with them due to the disclosures made to me.

I feel completely lost and helpless, I am currently signed off work, I still haven't been able to tell my child why they can't see this person anymore, and just keep saying they are busy when I'm asked.

I apologise for rambling on here...just lost and broken due to what this person has been accused of.

Posted Tue June 30, 2026 3:55pmReport post

6789

Member since
May 2025

238 posts

I am sorry you find yourself here, but welcome in.

If you call the helpline 08081000900 they will be able to hear your worries and maybe give you some clarity.

It's a terrible shock, it has been for all of us. Please keep reaching out.

Posted Tue June 30, 2026 4:13pmReport post


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