Struggling to cope after relatives arrest
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I am not sure what to write in this post, a family member was arrested at the beginning of May 2026 for possession of indecent images of children.
I am absolutely devastated by this as I was very close to this person. I have cut all contact with them - I cannot get my head around it at all.
There was mention of some app called "kik" being used but I've no idea what that is.
I have had disclosures made to me by SS due to me having a child who had contact with this person regularly.
I know this person is lying to the one family member who has chosen to maintain contact with them due to the disclosures made to me.
I feel completely lost and helpless, I am currently signed off work, I still haven't been able to tell my child why they can't see this person anymore, and just keep saying they are busy when I'm asked.
I apologise for rambling on here...just lost and broken due to what this person has been accused of.
I am not sure what to write in this post, a family member was arrested at the beginning of May 2026 for possession of indecent images of children.
I am absolutely devastated by this as I was very close to this person. I have cut all contact with them - I cannot get my head around it at all.
There was mention of some app called "kik" being used but I've no idea what that is.
I have had disclosures made to me by SS due to me having a child who had contact with this person regularly.
I know this person is lying to the one family member who has chosen to maintain contact with them due to the disclosures made to me.
I feel completely lost and helpless, I am currently signed off work, I still haven't been able to tell my child why they can't see this person anymore, and just keep saying they are busy when I'm asked.
I apologise for rambling on here...just lost and broken due to what this person has been accused of.
I am sorry you find yourself here, but welcome in.
If you call the helpline 08081000900 they will be able to hear your worries and maybe give you some clarity.
It's a terrible shock, it has been for all of us. Please keep reaching out.
If you call the helpline 08081000900 they will be able to hear your worries and maybe give you some clarity.
It's a terrible shock, it has been for all of us. Please keep reaching out.