In the space of 2 weeks, it's amazing how many times (especially given the lack of people who know) i have been asked whether I am going to leave/separate/ends things with the accused. I don't feel i have even really started to process things probably yet. My brain is buffering me from thinking too much abojt what he has actually done (he has admitted the charges). I love very much and i am very concerned for his mental health at the moment. I cannot correlate the man i thought i knew with who has done this.

I am spiralling over what life will be like and how its going to be a long and diffiicult process. At the moment i am avliding spending time with him because i can't face the supposes normality.



What have other people done? Stayed with or separated?



Thanks