Hi I have been on this form for couple of years and I thought to come back and update people how things have been for me so people know there is some hope out there .so 5 years ago my husband was arrested for indecent images on his phone from a whats app group which he joined and had legal porn but also had things he should have not have he was arrested and was charged for possession of indecent images and and got suspended sentence for 2 years and 10 years on the register my whole world came upside down I had a child with him so socail got involved my son was only 6 months so you can imagine how hard it must have been for me .socail service got in contact with me and that's were my life became hell and everything had changed he had to move out they tould me I had to choose between my son or him which I tould them my son comes first because I wanted them to do the risk assment to see what the risk was they took me to court and my husband had to see his son in contact cente for nearly 2 years any way the outcome was he was a low Risk but still I could not be with him becaue I was very scared I decided to leave him and just focus on my son and me and I then started to supervise contact which was a bit easy in the risk assment the lady said my son can have unsupervised contact when my son turns 7 which he is now . After couple of years we decided to get back together with out him moveing in but I informed socail to let them know we have got back together but we don't live together and I let the school know they were happy that I informed them they said they don't need to open the case they will put it on the file .

3 months later I find out I am pregnant so again I contacted socail and let them know I am expecting a baby they said that's fine but that's it when I had my midwife appointment I was referred to socail and I got a call when I was 12 weeks I was soo nervous that I can't even explain they said there were informed from the midwife and they need to come out to see me and so a assessment which they did they also spoke to my son went to his school which was ok did keep safe work with him which I was fine about they were happy the fact even I got back with him we didn't move in together the fact I am a protective factor they saw me as any ways it was a bit hard at birth because he can only come with me when I am in active labour and he was not allowed to be on any other wards but things didn't go to plan as I went in to labour 1 month early at 35 weeks my mum came to the hospital and then the midwife said to me after I give work my husband can only come for two hours then he has to go he can't come back which he came then went which was hard because I had to be on my own but I was willing to stay strong sake of my kids and after 8 days we finally came home with out any social involvement they close the case after a month when they did the risk assmwnt again so there is a happy ending please stay strong and put your kids first I just wanted to post this to give people hope out there xxx