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Hi, I am new to all this and feel like I have no knowledge of anything.
I have been married for 20+ years to my husband and have children with him. Some adults some minors, He doesn't live with us anymore for obvious reasons. Im one click away from divorcing him but still love him very much, I know crazy. I just don't know what my options are and what the next steps to take.
I have been married for 20+ years to my husband and have children with him. Some adults some minors, He doesn't live with us anymore for obvious reasons. Im one click away from divorcing him but still love him very much, I know crazy. I just don't know what my options are and what the next steps to take.
Hi,
there's no rush to make decisions. Loving your husband but hating what he has done is a normal reaction. In time you will be in a better position mentally to make decisions about your relationship. Take things minute by minute for now and allow yourself to feel however you're feeling. Sending love xxx
there's no rush to make decisions. Loving your husband but hating what he has done is a normal reaction. In time you will be in a better position mentally to make decisions about your relationship. Take things minute by minute for now and allow yourself to feel however you're feeling. Sending love xxx
Thank you so much for your reply its been hard not having anyone to chat to about my situation. I will take any advice right now and god knows I need help understanding the rules. I don't know if he his allowed around his children unsupervised or weather he can stay in a caravan with us or if his allowed to even go on a holiday.
What stage is the investigation at? Have you had a call or visit from social services?
I am currently in the early stages of SS involvement so at this stage have no advice but what I will say is please keep posting on here, reading through others stories etc, the women on here have given me so much hope and belief for the future and this forum has honestly become my lifeline during such an awful time, the LFF helpline are amazing and so supportive and non judgemental, please be assured you are not alone! X
