I have 4 children 2 under 18 2 over my husband was arrested 6mths ago for IIoc on his phone, after a lot of talking and therapy we are working staying together it comes from a porn addiction he isnt sexually attracted to children he found pics on a free site u could literally view folders of cars n flowers etc before we met he had 2 major trauma events his wife cheated on him n his dad died with in 5mths, he was on his own for 9yrs nkt excuse but i understand the addiction part.....not allowed to sleep in house plus no unsupervised contact with our children under 18 no charges as of yet, we all no these things take time

Last week my oldest went to see her uncle shes 25 still lives at home and we have kept who knows very small she decided to tell him everything anyway it all kicks off hes screaming at me saying ive damaged my oldest mental health by letting my hubsand around my children he is the step dad etc her and my next one who's 21 have decided to go no contact with me cause im not putting them first oldest is now staying at her uncles house 21yr old lives with boyfriend

My 17 and 11yr old still wanna be around my husband and are safe they told social worker etc

Am I a bad parent should I consider adult children