My partner was arrested spring 2025 and between then and now had not spoken about his offence with me or his family. I have fully supported him both emotionally and financially through this awful time. But recently found out at court that a younger family member has been photographed by him and shared. We are now at the stage of sentencing in next few weeks. All information i have has been given during court attendances. I feel there is no future for our marriage but my emotions and thoughts are everywhere. How do i move on from this? I feel as if our whole 40 yrs together has been a lie.

Sunshine & Rainbows thank you for your reply. I feel i cannot trust him but i am so worried that if i do leave he will harm himself and i would never forgive myself if that happened. My daughters are split on whether i stay or go. When this hits the wider family i worry this will destroy my family. I just want to protect my daughters and grandchildren. Sometimes feel im the one who had done wrong.